2007-07-31 06:09:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't teach a woman that. They either are willing to pay or not. So you need to find the type that does. You will only find out after you have gone out with her. Good luck.
2007-07-31 06:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by stephie5555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to "teach" anything, just tell the women you date your expectations for paying - if you think you should split equally, pay for your own meal, pay for every other meal, or she should always pay everything. Then the ball is in her court, and she decides whether she sees your expectations as reasonable (I can almost guarantee she'll laugh at that last one though). When you find someone who agrees, you've got a date partner.
2007-07-31 13:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by blackbyrus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy wont get too many dates will he. He probably spend all his $$ down in the red light district and now wants a real 'lady' to pay his way. Cheep date skate!
2007-07-31 13:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all about being the player. If you are on a date and the total is under $20, Its up to the guy to pay. If she orders a lot and goes overboard on expenses well either she is going to rock your world or you say you will call her and never do....
2007-07-31 13:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. This is my take on it, i don't care if a man wants me to pay for a date. I'm an independent woman, i have a job, and i can pay for myself. BUT....he shouldn't get all mad if i don't go on another date with him.
here's my problem wit it, It's just CHEAP for a guy not to pay for you. If he is asking you out, it's an only courtesy to pay for you when HE asked you out. It just shows that you CARE. It's not about the money it's about the principle of the thing.
2007-07-31 13:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by laangel464 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk my dad once told me when I started dating that i could always ask a guy out instead of waiting but with that comes planning the date and paying for the date......I take the control of the date. Sometimes thats allot of fun to watch a guy just sit back and be shocked that all they had to do was be ready at the time stated!
2007-07-31 13:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by divers_godeeper 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well it has always been the guys who pay for the bills, if you're on a date then you should pay for your date, if not, just say it before ordering
2007-07-31 13:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by LovJoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You can't "teach" a woman like you can a dog. I'm surprised you have a date with that outlook.
2007-07-31 13:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by crystal_payton 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow...
okay there's this little thing called 'being a gentleman' which involves paying for the lady
they don't need to pay for anything if you really care for them, even just as a friend
2007-07-31 13:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by zs_a_rose_by_any_other_name_zs 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't date much do you pal.
2007-07-31 13:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋