What body do women like best? Buff, lean, or teddy bear?

Question

I am 6 foot and I wiegh 238lbs. I workout, but am a bigger boned type guy. I want to lose weight and look good, but I need to know if I should get cut like Usher, or buff like Arnold, or stay a teddy bear? What do woman perfer? Please help.

Answer 1

I really do not find thin or skinny men attractive, even if they are ripped and have the 6 pack it is simply not a turn on for me.

I don't like bones, or muscles galore.

I really like men with some meat on them, Strong but not a body builder. I would have to say a man who wears a 36-38 size in jeans at 5"9 - 6"2 is really HOT !!!
as it does depend on the way your portioned still meat is always better then bones or too much muscle in my opinion.

try not to look like you have AIDS, or like your on steroids.

Answer 2

Many girls like a lean mean man, but is that the kind of girl you really want to attract? Someone that is materialistic and looking at the outside rather then the inside? Stay the way you are! There are plenty of girls that love the teddy bears! Besides, what if you ever gained any weight after doing all that...Would they stay with you? You should never chnage for anyone. If you are comfortable and confident in your own skin then they will see that and you will get more attention then you can even think of...Good Luck!

Answer 3

I did a mini survey at work once (about 14 women aged 20 to 40)and I was surprised that most preferred the teddy bear type.

Answer 4

My ex husband was really buff and muscular - and to be honest his arrogance and self absorbed attitude was such a turn off I never felt attracted to him.

I actually prefer a guy to have some muscle in their arms and shoulders that is somewhat noticable - but I think if a guy is a bit of a teddy bear - that is just fine.

The most important thing is that you are a good guy and treat your lady good.

Answer 5

I prefer a guy who has a swimmers body
broad shoulders nice arms, tapering down to a trim waist and lean hips

I personally would NOT date a overweight guy and never have

yeah, I'm shallow and can afford to be
yes I am in great shape-
I would out 4 times a week and watch my diet
I am proudly a size 7 ( and have been for the past 30 years)

Answer 6

Depends really..I don't like buff at all..its just something about it that I don't like..and lean well thats good but I like teddy bear and I love holding onto someone whos warm and chubby haha sounds funny but its the truth..

ps..ur weight and height are perfect to me :) just the way I like it !

Answer 7

Honestly it depends upon the girl but I'm partial to teddy bears. The other 2 a simply eye candy.

Answer 8

I like a healthy, robust, hard, athletic body: muscular, but not necessarily the gym meat-head type. I love the definition that you get with having lower body fat %, but going too low is gross (the face starts to look old because their is no fat to soften the features). I think pro body builders are too over the top for my taste, but a man's body must have muscle; and strength is always a huge turn on for me.

Of course, this is just my personal preference.

Answer 9

i love teddy bear type guys... my boyfriend is very strong, he's got huge arm muscles, but he's still very cuddly and nice to hug!

don't create your body to get girls. just make your body the way you're comfortable, and you'll find girls that love it! it's the same with girls, i'm not rail thin or anything, but i've got a guy who loves my little pudge. as long as you're comfortable and healthy, that's the most important thing.

Answer 10

well. i like the lean and cut type of guy. that he still looks buff but does not have muscle boobs. for example: chris evans or tom welling. those are two good bodies.