ok so im dating this guy who is also dating he's baby's mother... in other words im the other woman. but i really really care for him. he tells me he cares for me too but should i believe him? we've been dating for a month and a half and we havent slept together... he doesnt try to so what does he want from me? im not rich so it isnt money... so what is he looking for?
2007-07-31 05:56:24 · 7 answers · asked by *!* Kase *!* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIRL IT CANT FEEL GOOD TO HAVE A GUY BUT HIM OT BE ALL YOURS I WOULD LEAVE HIM. IF HE CANT COMIT TO ONE PERSON WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE WIL BE ABLE TO WITH YOU. AND TAHT BOY NEEDS TO STAY WITH HIS BABY MAMA AS LONG AS THEM TWO ARE HAPPY BETTER FOR THE BABY.
2007-07-31 06:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Nolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't got a boyfriend? Meaning - you have lots of girlfriends but no boyfriends? There is a difference. What this guy ne'eds is to be able to talk and hear anothers point of view by asking questions that he probably doesn't want to ask his own friends. His partner might get her answers from all the girls and everyone else yet shuts him down because he has no opening to allow for friendships - having a friend doesn't mean you have to take your clothes off. You can have a friendship - you can learn a lot from it. If the push comes to shove that he is actually after you then I think you should be able sense that - but its not, you haven't made out lesser kissed each other. Just be yourself. Talk and talk alot - decide later on what it all is.
2007-07-31 06:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he was honest with you about his baby's mother, maybe he genuinely likes you and doesn't want to muck up the relationship by introducing sex into the equation while he's still involved with someone else (an admirable and respectful position, by the way). In this way, even though you're the "other woman", you're not being treated like the other woman, per se. To me, it seems like he really cares about you....it's worth hanging around to see what's really up.
2007-07-31 06:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remeber this... guys get bored of gadgets n gals very soon... dis is exactly the scenario here.... he's just using u... aint dat obvious.... im sure u wana be THE woman dan "jus da oder" woman... ignore him for sometime and c if it makes a difference in him... if he acts restless n wana tok to u, den he's really in love wid u but if it doesn make a diff den he's just using u as a mode of timepass...
2007-07-31 06:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by rahulnraul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he's not gonna give up on the baby's mother because of course he's the baby daddy. he wants to feel needed by the baby's mother and he's not cheating on YOU he's cheating on HER with YOU. He's looking for a fun time with you excluding the nasty nasty.
2007-07-31 06:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by HOLLiSTER PREP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty he is lyin you don't need him because he aint leaveing his baby mother he aint want the mother put his in court for childsupport leave him for your own good because you would be puttin your hope up for nothing.
2007-07-31 06:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetsexy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry girl, but he prob. is lying to you, or he just can't decide between 2 girls
2007-07-31 06:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Snojack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋