I've been with my boyfriend since february but we've only been dating since april..I love him and he loves me and its not the school yard love where you say it as soon as you start going out. BUT recently i've been having feelings for my ex boyfriend and he likes me and he told me that if i break up with my boyfriend i'd be with him. Im staying with my boyfriend but I dont know if its the right thing..do i stay with my boyfriend or go back to my ex?
2007-07-31 05:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wherever ur the happiest is where u should stay. think about it this way, you are looking out for your own heart. dont worry about breaking other ppls are becuz life is all about live, love, and laugh. well not ALL about, but a big contributor. but also remember that ur probably still young. so dont committ fully, becuz u have a life to live. well hope ur fiasco works out.
2007-07-31 05:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It completely depends which guy you 'prefer'. You say that this love you feel for your boyfriend isn't just the 'school yard love', but I honestly believe that you're not truly in love with him if you're having these feelings for your ex. At the end of the day it's not fair on either of them if you don't choose who you want to be with - and fast.
2007-07-31 12:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex boyfriend for a reason. NEver go back- just keep moving forward. Pick your current boyfriend and tell your ex you're sorry he didn't realize what a great girl he had when he had you.
2007-07-31 12:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol smitty, school yard, i hav that stuff alot in my school, but, ive been liking this girl for the past 3 years, i really like her, and stuff,WAIT!, back to ur question, ummmmmm welll, make a list of both guys, pros and cons, and see who wins, unless u care for only 1, then go with the one that u care for most
2007-07-31 12:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a tough one. The question to you then is "Who do you love more?" "Who would always be there for you?" "Who will always make sure his gf is happy?"
Now if there both like this then it's decision time. "Who are you more attracted to"? I'm sure you'll figure it out and good luck. I know some girls who I'm friends with that would kill to be in this position.
2007-07-31 13:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your ex for a reason. but, if you are that unsure, your love for the new guy isnt true. think about this. are you really being fair to the new bf?
2007-07-31 12:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by K-girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on why you broke up with your ex in the first place
2007-07-31 12:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by lo_zeke8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋