There's this guy that I met in college last yr..we started trying to get to know each other but he left to go to another school...for a yr we've talked on & off but sometimes months would go by w/o him calling...like after 4 months, he recently called me & has been calling everyday since...i don't think he was ready for a relationship a yr ago but now i'm getting vibes that he may want something more...I like him alot.......
HOWEVER, when he had left last yr one of his good friends confessed that he had feelings 4 me too.....he also tried to get me to meet his mom & told me that he wanted to eventually marry me even after i said no ...i was REALLLLLYY taken back especially because that was suppossed to be his good friend....
so now i'm not sure if I should let the guy that i'm talking too eventually know that someone who he calls his "FRIEND" tried to get w/ someone he had feelings for...but i don't wanna ruin their friendship...what should I do
2007-07-31 03:48:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's never a good idea to get between two friends; a girl I dated a long time ago did that ( got between a friend and I) and it ruined all 3 of our relationships!
~Bob
2007-08-03 10:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Headhunter 6 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When indecision in human relationships come up always pick the path of honesty which your doing a decent job of. But you need to take it hardcore, and tell the friend you do have feelings for the truth. And also tell the friend you don't how backstabbing and decetful this is, if you do feel that way. Also be more honest with him about how your never going to be with him, and more honest with this other one your considering.
2007-08-03 10:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋