my bf came home smelling like a stripper! what should i do!?

Question

he smelled like another girl! asked him where he went and he said "ahh...nowhere! i was drinking beer with my friends!" yea right what a liar! tell me what to do!

i know what a stripper smells like because i used to be a stripper myself!

Answer 1

Ok if he said "ahh..... nowhere" he is so up to something. Just confront him if he denies it find out for your self, then dump the sorry a** loser.

Answer 2

Smelling strippers sounds like a wonderful past time.
But to your question, it is all about how you feel about it. Was he cheating? You don't know until you press the issue. Was he at a strip joint? maybe, if he didn't do anything but watch, then come home to you, how does it make you feel knowing that he probably could have but didn't do anything. Or are you secure enough to know that he watches strippers. as long as he comes home to you?
Only you can deside how you feel. But for both your sakes. make sure that you have the full story before making rash decisions. Good Luck

Answer 3

wow im curious like many others on here.what does a stripper smell like?hmmm.....you sure he didnt smell like he maybe has his own personal stripper besides you?he could have been out driking with her and who knows what else.just cause he was out drinking doesnt mean he was with his friends ....or does it guys?yea right! if you think hes not telling the truth(what man does when suspected of being with another female) then i suggest you do what you gotta do! that would be whatever your heart tells you to do.if you think you should stick around and just wonder if about where and who he was really with ,then do it.just know that you will most likly have problems with trust and who knows what else.make sure he wears condoms with you until you know for sure where hes been.good luck.

Answer 4

Obviously, he was either hugging up or kissing on someone. You don't get that smell unless there is something going on. I'd confront him bold face and say, "Why do you smell like a stripper?" If he gets mad say something like one of my friends saw you with her and see what he says. A lot of times they'll walk right into that one.... and admit everything..

Answer 5

Ask yourself how you know what a stripper smells like

Answer 6

there is no such thing as smelling like a stripper
smelling like a girl u can do
not a stripper
but if ur so worried follow him next time he goes somewhere

Answer 7

First things first.... you and your bf must start to build a trust for one another..... If you dont trust him, you most certainly wont believe what any of us have to say about the situation! That's all I want to say.... TrusT! Next time, go with him when he goes out. If he makes excuses for why you cannot or should not go... well, then thats no relationship! You must rid him of your life at once... he is def not worth your time and effort! GL

Answer 8

nothing, jokingly ask him: "so how was the stripper?"

haha, strippers aren't that bad, men like to be teased, maybe you should one up the stripper and tease him a bit yourself.

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Answer 9

If he was looking at strippers, big deal. He came home to you, didn't he?

But if he's lying to you, that's a bigger problem. Talk to him about it. If he continues to be evasive, tell him you're having trouble trusting him. If he cares about you at all, he'll confess. But if you have issues trusting him already, maybe it's time to find a guy you can trust.

Answer 10

Trust him...If it happens again, then talk to him about it, but maybe all he did was go out with his friends for a beer. If he went to a strip club, so what, you can't touch the dancers there anyway! Maybe they went to a crowded bar and they sat next to a group of women who wore too much prefume.