Im just curious how you would handle it if another girl was after your man. This tart he dated years ago keeps tracking him down (mobile) and trying to get it on with him. The main problem is he is too nice to just tell her to **** off! He reckons she is really immature and she will never come between us but despite a warning from me she just won't sod off. Anyone know any good ways of playing her at her own games or getting a bit of gentle revenge. Nothing nasty just a bit of fun. I only have her mobile number and don't know where she lives.
Any websites i can post to or ways of registering her number with sumthing funny? I have tried being grown up about it but lets have some fun lol
2007-07-31 02:32:55 · 11 answers · asked by Nickii 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok Ok point taken but that wasnt my question really lol.
I do trust him, he does ignore her and doesnt reply to her, but when he changes his number she finds it out. Unless I make him send a txt infront of me being blunt as possible. I don't want to fight her either. not physically.
2007-07-31 02:49:43 · update #1
I had the same problem. The b**** just didnt get it, that he didn't want her. So I made it very clear to her, and I let her know whats up. And I guess she got scared and she stopped.
2007-07-31 02:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Alyssa17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have a serious word with your boyfriend and tell him how this makes you feel. He should respect your views and will hopefully drop keeping in contact with her. However, that won't stop her contacting him - she either wants him back or just can't drop him as a friend. Personally I don't think you can be a good friend with an ex, particularly when new partners come into the equation. Warning her off hasn't worked so I wouldn't give her the joy of attempting that again, it will just show her how much she's managing to get to you.
2007-07-31 09:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Tell your boyfriend, and not in a guilt trip "if you loved me you'd do it" kind of way to ignore her too. Just tell him it would make you feel a lot better if he didn't have any contact with her.
Don't answer the phone if she rings, don't reply to her text messages or emails.
If your man can't do that then you have to ask him why. It's obviously making you unhappy and if he won't do this to stop that, a serious conversation might be needed.
2007-07-31 09:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by DMsView 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's all about trust right now. You have to have faith that the guy is going to not fall for her schtick. If you're not threatened by his possible actions, you have nothing to worry about. She's not a threat, and you're showing him your faith and trust in his decision-making. It will be better for the relationship, then if you were to take the chick head-on.
Or, if you want, ask him where she lives, trash her car, trash her house, fight her. But then you'll look like an idiot to your boyfriend. I would lose respect, since you don't have any self-respect.
2007-07-31 09:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aren't gags like this probably why he's with you not with her???
Ok so that's not what you want to hear...
Why not register her to work taking premium rate calls, she'll soon get fed up of dirty phone calls every few minutes.
Or order pizzas for random addresses and leave her number as the contact.
Or to be honest just leave it be and enjoy your time with your man, just ask that he respect your feelings by not returning her calls or texts.
2007-07-31 11:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Skippy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wont tell her to go away, he obviously enjoys it.
Every guy who reads your problem will know that your boyfriend hasnt got rid of her becuase he is too nice, that just an excuse to keep it going
2007-07-31 09:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have to agree with the majority - if he's not getting rid of her himself then he loves the attention... slap him and tell him to shut her out or you'll leave (otherwise you;ll be a doormat)
2007-07-31 09:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he cares about you and really has no feelings for her then he will tell her to get lost and you wouldnt have this problem
2007-07-31 09:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Georgie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety dont stoop to her level keep your chin up and ignore it and try and make him understand how it's affecting you having her trying to get her way with him. if you can prove to her that no matter what she tries your gonna keep your man then she'll soon back off and give up chic. dont worry about it.
2007-07-31 09:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what you're saying is you want to be more like the girl your guy no longer wants to date. Um, yeah... what's the point?
2007-07-31 09:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋