Lately I just feel like there is something wrong with me. A year ago I was very confident in myself and now I am not. I don't feel attractive at all and cannot remember the last time I felt a guy was truly interested in me. Most of my friends are paired up now and I just feel like the odd one out. I have a really good heart. I just feel like I am missing something. I try to meet new people and volunteer. What should I do?
2007-07-31 02:27:41 · 4 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your just in a rut. Learn to make your self approachable. When a guy your interested in looks or stares at your. Smile or wink, do something that lets him know "hey come talk to me."
2007-07-31 03:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Swarrly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're judging your life by external factors largely beyond your control, and that is producing some anxiety. Our lives are constantly in a state of flux....changing, growing and evolving, and different people are arriving at stages in their development at different rates. This doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you just because you're not "there" yet...it just means it's not your turn. (When you were feeling self-assured and on top of your game there were many other people who weren't at that stage. so you can somewhat see how all of these things balance out in the eternal scheme of things). Be patient with yourself and trust in your innate ability to adapt....you've done it before and quite successfully; there's no reason to think you won't do it again when it's time.
2007-07-31 02:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do the hardest thing in the world, don't worry about it. i know you hear it every day but it is so very true. find something that makes you truely happy and do it and it really helps to have your friends' support on it too. do whatever it takes to get your mind off of it. say, i dunno, go bowling and just worry about bowling, don't look around to see if there are any guys, don't think that you may meet someone there, just go to have fun and see how well you can do at bowling. don't go anywhere with the intent that you want to meet anyone, the rest will come to you, maybe even fall in your lap.
2007-07-31 02:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you need to trust yourself coz if you won't trust yourself then whho else would? Sostart trusting yorself..that way, you'll gain back your confidence.
2007-07-31 02:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cyruz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋