A few months ago, I went for lunch with a girl at work.She asked me out of the blue.It went really well(she kept telling me details of where she was going out that evening)We continued to chat via email,as she was in another team.She suggested we go for lunch again, I suggested maybe go for a drink after work,which she agreed to.She also said she'd give me her number,but didn't.
Nxt week she mentioned she met someone that wkn.I said I was happy for and wished her luck.I asked if she wanted to go for lunch/a drink and she then said she don't want me getting the wrong idea! I wrote back saying I already fancy someone else and only wanted to be friends with her - nothing more!
Since then we haven't really spoken,she did a few times how it was going with the girl I fancied and she kept praising her new man!
Everytime I see her now,she just blanks me!
1.What went wrong?
2.Did I miss my chance?
3.Does she feel embarrassed by me saying I didn't fancy her?
4.New bloke real?
2007-07-31 02:03:59 · 15 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She met this bloke after the lunch we had-where we were quite flirty wth each other,with her telling me she's single,what she looks for in a bloke,where she was going to be that evening etc
2007-07-31 02:23:25 · update #1
Sounds like you got defensive when she told you she had met someone. You answered with well I like another girl yada, yada, yada. Girls want you to fight for them if you like them. She wanted you to show a little jealousy or make a comment. You gave up wayyy to easy. Girls like to be chased.
She replied to you with don't get the wrong idea because you already made her feel like an idiot by telling her you were happy for her and you didn't fancy her.
So yes, you missed your chance. And she's trying to act nonchalant and make you jealous by rating about her new man.
2007-07-31 02:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey,ur not the problem.Girls are known to be quite assertive but we can also be so persive.The fact that the two of you have other mates should be reason enough to have a platonic friendship.Maybe she thought you would ask her out but since you didnt she unleashes her disappointment by playing dump.Move on but dont blank her.Just say hallo whenever u meet,she will adjust
2007-07-31 02:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Darling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What went wrong? u sed u liked another girl, now ur not available to her
2.Did I miss my chance? yup, just b straght wiv her from now on
3.Does she feel embarrassed by me saying I didn't fancy her? no, she liked you but you put her off u
4.New bloke real?i wouldnt think so, just be honest, i find girls perfer guys who are upfront with them, dont seem desperate though
2007-07-31 04:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by oldertibz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are playing games...Why would you want a girl who goes out for flirtatious drinks with one guy, then that same day hooks up with someone else?
I agree with my co-parts MOVE ON!!!
2007-07-31 02:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by S_C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying that you fancy another girl is a real turn off!
2007-07-31 02:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do ya mean is dis new bloke real?? Why did u tell her u didn't fancy her if u did??
She hasn't spoken to u bcoz she's met some1 else...............
2007-07-31 02:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you "fancy someone else" what chance did you miss? She found someone else who fancies her and she's moved on. Lucky you!
2007-07-31 02:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she had forgotten about it.Nothing went wrong.
Never miss a chance.Yes.All ladies will feel embarrassed.
2007-07-31 02:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know for sure is to ask her.
Anything else would be pure speculation !
2007-07-31 03:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang man wake up she was playing u for a chump move on and fine someone that really want u and will respect u?
2007-07-31 02:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by A New Married Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋