I met a guy 5-weeks ago. From day one we both knew we were soulmates. Fast-forward 3-weeks later. We both a had a little too much to drink and attempted to have sex...FOR THE 1ST TIME IN LIFE my vagina didn't get wet and eventually his penis went soft. The next couple of times were the same. We had 1 successful sexual encounter. Now I've finally got my pipes working (I don't know how I think it was just mental) and he goes soft during sex. He says he's never experience this before, and he thinks its because we've been having problems and doesn't think he'll be able to please me sexually. A mistake I made/make is talking about sex (what I don't like) and I make jokes about how he performs during sex (but nothing about him going soft just his strokes). Is there anything we can do to get on track?
2007-07-31 02:03:34 · 4 answers · asked by Seeking Opinions 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
The expectations were too high and are too high on one or both sides. Too much pressure, and it was sold too high (i.e. we were MADE to be soulmates...or...its the BEST TV SHOW EVER). That can cause a lot of stress
Slow down and it will work itself out.
2007-07-31 02:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are meant to be good friends not lovers. You probably have a lot in common, which lead the two of you to believe you were soul mates. Put the sex to the side and see what happens.
2007-07-31 02:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by emtd65 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if thats the case then maybe he is'nt your soul mate lol.If he was performance in bed should'nt matter that much to you and you would seek professional help for him.I suggest you do that.
2007-07-31 02:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are talking adn its bugged him and he can't stay with the program. just get into mood and it will finally come take time and relax.
2007-08-03 16:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋