2007-07-31 01:56:42 · 8 answers · asked by sr 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
How to Make People Love You
Do you want to be one of those happy, popular people who everyone seems to love? Now you can!
Steps
1. Change your attitude..If you want to be loved, love everyone! Be nice, gentle and friendly toward everyone, even if they are not nice back. No one can ever find fault with you if you are the kindest person ever.
2. Do the basics, like shower everyday, wash and condition your hair every other day, wear deodorant, brush your teeth 2-3 times a day, use mouthwash if you have bad breath, and look after your skin.
3. Speak up! People admire those with opinions more than those who never have their say and let everyone else rule their lives.
4. Smile, and look approachable
5. Don't ignore people or talk about them behind their backs.
6. Be helpful! Lend people things, help them with homework or chores, offer to help with their shopping... be there and be willing to help.
7. Have time to listen. The greatest thing you can have for everyone is time! Listen to peoples problems, and do your best to give solid, good advice.
Tips
* Smile
* Don't shout at people, or say they are stupid if they don't understand something straight away.
* Be patient with everyone.
* Treat everyone as you would like to be treated.
* Try to be funny. People ALWAYS love someone that can make them laugh. If you need help with this see 'How to be Funny.' However, know when NOT to be funny, like when a person needs consolidation. In that case, offer advice.
Warnings
* Don't be a pushover. Even though you are being nice, friendly and gentle, do not let people walk all over you.
* Some people just don't love everyone. Don't let it get you down if some people still hate you. There are many more good friends out there.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-07-31 02:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by glorious angel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same way you "make" anyone love you, be yourself. If you mean you want to get along and be well thought of, be considerate, friendly, and reliable. Try not to gossip or visibly put yourself before everyone else.
2007-07-31 09:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Stoic fool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is to respect everyone no matter what colour there are treat everyone with respect and you will never go wrong in life.
2007-07-31 09:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by zoleka k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friendly, helpful, good listener and above all excellent at your job. no one likes a slob whereas competence is always respected. combine that with humility and you have a winning combination
2007-07-31 10:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by sherkhaan09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by been cheerful, neutral to negative happenings around
disassociate urself from gossip
2007-07-31 09:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by joddie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with them. Thats what I do. It works.
2007-07-31 10:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be a bum kisser.
2007-07-31 11:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice
2007-07-31 09:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Willow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋