Do all girls like to play this silly games like playing hard to get and or say they like you then when you do something nice they ignore you and when you ignore them they do something nice for you.Stuff like that why do you all do this and dont you feel guilty about what you put guys you like through?I want to know which girl isnt like this but why those who are like this do it.
2007-07-31 01:56:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can there be a balance from both the boy and the girl where neither really hurts the other just showing affection little by little at the same time or must 1 always be in control where it is unfair to the other?
2007-07-31 02:14:28 · update #1
No I dont do this. But most girls like that are just going out with a guy so they can look good and show people that they can get a boyfriend.
2007-07-31 01:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by D.A.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this can be an insecurity or immaturity issue, where the girl playing hard to get is afraid that things will not work out with a new boyfriend. Or it can be inner if they grow up in a household where the parents are always fighting. Or maybe they do not know what they are looking for in a boyfriend.
I never played this game as a kid because I was very shy and boys never gave me a second look. Things changed in college when I came out of my shell and was able to socialize easier.
2007-07-31 09:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Paige Turner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree really whats the point in silly little games, if to people like eachother why put eachother through hell. Personally i dont do it, but my friends aways talk about like how they trick and play with lads and its wrng really. But i dont really think girls think about what there doing at the time and feel bad after, we cant control our emotions very well, especially teenagers.
2007-07-31 09:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of person plays games? Kids. Drop the little girls and go find a woman, they are more experenced anyways. Most "girls" that play games haven't even reached the age to have a fully developed brain to simply drive a car yet (
scientifically proven that young people's brain doesn't fully develop until their early 20's) still insist that becaus they haven't had w wreck they are mature, save it. young girls play games because they are retards just like the "playas" they want to date. Until you are around 25, your sh!t out of luck, so hump 'em and dump 'em.
2007-07-31 09:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by topofthefoodchain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
I am not that kind of girls. Exept of course if the guy is not doing anything nice, so it's a "solution" to see if he really wants you or not.
On the other hand, moste girls are doing this because maybe they feel like goddesses and they like to pull the interest of everybody on them! These girls are for slaps!!!
Others are just having fun with this!!!!!!!!
2007-07-31 09:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Low Fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the tim. i love playing hard to get. you just keep the guy chasing for more. if a guy asks me on a date or asks me out i say no and then they keep asking me .....eventually i say yes but it is fun to watch a guy actually work to get a date or a girlfriend. But if i really have feelings for the guy i say yes right away because i dont kno if he is the type to give up, or i even think about it ALOT to make sure he is the one for me
2007-07-31 09:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with the guys.if the girl shows love,and too much care for the guy ,the guy make a distance from a girl .like ignoring a girl's call.When the girl stop from calling,the guy will start thinking why and do something to please the girl.
2007-07-31 09:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls likes to play hard to get, but some don't, depends on the person i guess.
2007-07-31 09:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by gem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have three reasons why:
one: the previous boyfriend/boyfriends play games with her.
two:she wants to see how far she can go before you blow up at her for it, what your breaking point is.
three:she could be testing you to see if you are into her to use her or to love her
i am not the testing type but i have allot of friends that are so i know where you are coming from and how you feel
2007-07-31 09:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by JUST SOME ADVICE FOR YOU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls dont do this. its a silly high school game girls do when they dont want to get hurt and maybe dont really like you and just want to feel attention. when a girl REALLY likes you, it wont be a difficult process--it will happen naturally and easily.
2007-07-31 08:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋