Frist off until your.... wise? enough to understand that being shy is always based on your own fears, self-doubts, personal and social ignorance your not going to have game anyways. Also realize that culturally we have a BIG problem in the us, your going to be powerless to do much about it. So its time for you to regress and study some history, and talk to some people. You need to realize that the way you feel isn't much different then the way other people feel. We all feel insecure and if you don't realize that your going to be scared of other people instead of seeing, WOW your equal with everyone! But until you cut thru the Disney bs about why that is true your never going to find the confidence you need to have this game. Also is getting past the cultural problem which has a very, very bad way of confusing what sex is, with what love-making is... and emotinal maturity. But ether way, you do the classical way (just sit on your thumbs and wait for something to happen) or you can do it the best way (research, reflect, and experiment) your not going to beable to do very much ether way. Lets just say until you see yourself in other people, your not going to be able to see what you need to, to get past this....
2007-07-31 05:10:25
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answered by Brutal Honesty 7
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