i love a girl but she loves somebody else.help me?

Question

i tried to talk to her but she told me that the other guy told her not to talk to me.she doesn't accept any gifts from me.i couldn't make her understand that the other guy is just passing his time with her.he knew her even before i saw her for the first time.1.help me,i am in true love with her.2.how can i impress her.(i am a good biker.)3.she is a muslim and i am a christian.

Answer 1

i was in sorta the same relationship.

She was "arranged" with some one else.
he and She were both Muslim

I was christian.

she wouldn't even touch me, but we smiled together. ex in the eyes and the corners of our mouths.

I tried to "wooo" her, but after no evail,

I learned to RESPECT her and her "families" believes.

I moved on and so did she.

One of the best loves of my life, even without a touch.

......

Answer 2

If that's the chase then you shouldn't force yourself to her. Sad to say that he don't like you because of the other guy who you are saying that just passing her time to he girl you really love. If it is true, he will later find it by herself. He will leave the guy or maybe the guy wll do it later. You don't need to do many things to only imprss her or make her love you. It is a matter of time. Give her space. I don't mean that you should avoid or go away from her because i know it will not be easy for you. If you can't simply forget about her then just let your feeling stay. Love her as much as you have. Regards to your different religion. I don't think it is an obstacle for you two. Love has no boundaries and not definite end. Love is more powerful than anything in this world. And it's up to you to fight for your love.

Answer 3

I'd love to talk to you about this if I could IM you because it would be easier. You can't just impress a girl & make her love you, trust me because many people try to impress me. You have to let them go through there relationship & be there for her as much as you can through the problems because everything he does wrong can be something you do right. Get my drift? Also, you should POLITELY let her know that any guy who is trying to tell her who she can and can't talk to is too controlling & that is very dangerous in a relationship. If you have any proof he is actually just using her or isn't really into her emotionally then you should let her know while making sure she knows it's not out of jealousy. My IM ID is on my page so if you want any advice feel free to use it. <3 Much Love. Good Luck. Love takes patience. ~ Jo

Answer 4

Life is indeed difficult.
What you are doing will lead to endless pain. Everytime you would see them together, it will cause even more pain.
I know the stock answer of searching for other fish in the pond, but having faced this myself, this is easier to say than do.
Do not try to do anything special to get her interested or impressed. Do not try to be somebody else just to woo her. Even if you are successful (most unlikely), it will lead to a breakup which will be even more painful.

I do not also suggest that you try and tricks to create ill will between them. It can backfire badly.

Be yourself, enjoy your pain, and always be available for her. Make sure that you are around. But also get busy with some real good work. If it is destined, Sun will shine and she will smile.

Answer 5

The fact that she is a muslim makes everything way more difficult. If I were you I would try to get a christian girlfriend, with whom things may be a lot easier. Apart from that, I think that your strategy is not working, as trying to give her gifts only makes you look like a stalker.

Answer 6

You aren't going to like what you hear but MOVE ON. Forget about her. You are setting yourself up for heartbreak. Not only is she already with someone else whom you say she loves, but she is of a different religion and I am not saying these relationships can't work but TRUST me, relationships and marriages are so much easier when their are fewer MAJOR differences. My husband and I were both raised Italian and Catholic and under similar circumstances and we met and married five months later and are still together five years later, married almost five years. We disagree on very few things and coming from the same background and growing up with the same food, faith and values makes things much easier, trust me.

Answer 7

It dosent matter that what you are,the main thing in love is honesty.And you are pure as ur love so just wait because she will back to you,and u know what! true love always win.so let her be with him.And rest assured that u will win.And remember love is a feeling which u cant force on some one so have some patience.GOODLUCK.

Answer 8

im a biker 2!!! im in ABATE Ch51. try reasoning w/her. if she still blows u off then move on. i hate 2 say this but u will find another luv. im having relationship problems 2. i am deeply in luv w/this guy but i have a feeling he doesnt feel the same way. im trying 2 meet new ppl and get 2 kno them better. try introducing urself 2 other ppl. if they have any similarities w/u then get 2 kno them more. like me and u. we both r good bikers who r in bad relationships.

Answer 9

It's great that you are willing to date someone of a different religion. However, you don't want to run her off or scare her. Keep your distance. I always kick myself because I didn't choose the guy who was really digging me. Be patient and pray about it. You are on God's schedule. If it is meant, she will realize it.
Blessings.

Answer 10

HAVE U EVER HEARD THE QUOTE "WHEN U FINALLY REALIZE HOW GREAT I AM ILL BE WAKIN UP NEXT TO THE PERSON WHO ALREADY KNEW" .. FROM WAT UR SAYING, SHE DOESNT REALLY CARE AND AS HARD AS IT MIGHT BE AND AS GREAT AS U MIGHT B 4 HER, SHE MIGHT TRY TO CONTROL U SINCE SHE KNOW THAT U R WILLING TO WAIT FOR HER SO SHE MIGHT BE WAITIN UNTIL SHES DONE WITH HER CURRENT AND THEN GO TO U WHICH ISNT RIGHT SO I SAY TO JUST MOVE ON NOW B4 IT HURT HELLA MORE TO MOVE ON LATER .. AND I KNI THAT THATS HARD BECUZ IM IN THAT SOME SITUATION KNOW ... AND TRY NOT TO TALK TO HER AS MUCH BECUZ ULL FALL IN LOVE WITH HER MORE AND MORE EVERY SINGLE DAY