Do you ever feel like the world has turned it's back on you and no matter how hard you try you can't seem to make things better. Do you think I just need to give up everything that means anything to me and stop the fight? I really do need some advice on this. Why are people so thoughtless and mean to others? I really don't understand this and it can cause a person to just stop dead in their tracks and say is it worth going through all this pain and agony for something I have no control over. What should I do ? I know for a fact I'm not mental just hurt. How can people play with someones emotions and sleep good at night?
2007-07-30 20:39:10 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
People play with our emotions because we allow them to do so. We have to be stronger than that. We have to look within ourselves and bring out our own good and not wait for someone else to do it for us. I am pretty sure under all your pain is a nice, kind, and considerate person. Don't let a little hurt take that away. Let what you are going through make you stronger. After all, life experiences make us who we are. It is your choice whether you let it beat you down or you learn from it. Good Luck.
2007-07-31 11:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by flirty30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea some times people can be a B*tch, but thats more reasons not to be one. You can't just give up and surrender. Wake up each morning and live your life the way you think its is the best. If you think certain things are mean , be an example and don't do it. If everyone like you gave up,the world would be filled with thoughtless and mean people running around.
2007-07-31 03:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Midnite_rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What things do you need to be made better. For what reason do you need to give up fighting for things that mean anything to you. Are people really thoughtless and mean and causing you pain? Why are you so hurt. None of these questions make sense unless you have a goal in mind as they are all negative thoughts.
2007-07-31 03:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by veg_rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately Twinkie, we're not all so sweet. I often wonder that too, I mean what gives those people the right to just hurt others. I know one thing though; people who put others down need to keep themselves up. This is a psychological disorder, not just a learned behaviour. Maybe the one who hurt u was abused as a child or...geez you never know. Pray for him and God will bless 'you' and help you to recover. If you don't pray, just ask Him and He always hears.
2007-07-31 03:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by tink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never give up...never. ill fight until im knocked out cold..yea ppl are mean in this world but hey thats never gunna change..the best thing u can do? is man up,take the pain, convert that agony and agression into a resource u can use to retaliate. like i said, there are evil ppl out there, some u cant even stop. my life slogan is, "knock the other son of a ***** out before he gets a chance to do it to me"
cant sit back in this world anymore buddy
just gotta take it like a man
2007-07-31 03:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by jim p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never give up! These things and people are sent to test us and will make us stronger in the end. Noone who did great things in this world ever had an easy time. Keep on being you and gaining strength and wisdom from all the bad stuff
2007-07-31 03:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in great danger,like many young.If You are not at all next day,the entire life and work it is no use.The life begin so hard,because we must to see and to know the wrong things and to have and especially to appreciate a better life next time.So,the best advice,it is:try to be alive anytime.try to obtain just what it is possible,do not ask something which may to put You in danger.All the best!
2007-07-31 04:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Leonard B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having one of those days when nothing goes rigtht. Been there done that many times.
Best remedy for that is to get mad as h**ll and refuse to let it or them get the better of you.
Just over and over I'll going to beat it I'll show their a**ses.
2007-07-31 03:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey thats life
u r young and have to learn to take it with your stride
who knows like me you did not handle the person well , i learnt it after many many years and still do badly at times
learn to forgive it is easier than planning scalping them ,and it gives you a Superior look
2007-07-31 03:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
develop your mental, spiritual en physical health to see you are being put to the test.
2007-07-31 03:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by franslaimbock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋