i have trouble sleeping,
i have changed eating habits,
and honestly....i am a different person,
now fighting episodes of moderate to extreme depression
the boy i loved with everything i had
broke up with me over a month ago
and im still a mess
how do i get over him
when all i can think about is him
and i dont want to meet any new guys
cuz i just look for someone just like him
...but he wasmyone and only =/
and he doesnt even give a **** and we dont talk
2007-07-30 20:08:12 · 11 answers · asked by Carson K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went through the same thing for a while. Everytime I'd hear our song on the radio or see him with his new girlfriend, I went ballistics. I'd just start crying at random times and I cried myself to sleep EVERY night. Hang out with your friends, spend a lot of your time with your friends and family. Heh. One thing that helped me was this guy that I've known for a while, he kissed me. And that helped me get over my ex a lot faster. lol. So try something like that. It might help, maybe I'm just insane lol. I hope you feel better soon.
Good luck =].
2007-07-30 20:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie Dawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babysit, adopt a puppy, go help out at the homeless shelter.
Anything you can do to offload some of that built-up estrogen will make you feel better. And getting gratitude and love from any of these sources will fill up your emptiness until you're ready to try again.
2007-07-30 20:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i felt that way one time and it sucked all i did was remember that he broke up with me! all u have to do is act like u dont care either nd soon u will realize that u dont. heartbreak takes time to get over so just try your best and be a happy person, and once u dont even look his way anymore hes gonna want u back! but ur gonna have to move on because if you take him back thats gonna make him think that he has you wrapped around is finger and hes gonna keep breaking your heart over and over
2007-07-30 20:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by rabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta learn to love yourself. If you love yourself and take care of yourself you will be a whole person. You have got to take care and look out for #1. Why would you love an idiot? Are you sure you are not in love with the idea of being in love. Pray to God and thank Him for today. The rest will work out.
2007-07-30 20:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by bahaiking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang... I think you're depressed. Maybe you should talk to a psychologist who can give you antidepression pills. It really sucks to feel that down. This will help uunti lyoure back on you feet. Because TIME HEALS EVERYTHING. Sometimes it takes longer. But it does heal.
2007-07-30 20:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by whosit? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont. The only thing that turly helps is time. And in time your pain will fade. The only good advice I can give is to learn from your relationship. And just give it time.
2007-07-30 20:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by Green 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn...i know how you feel...i was the same exact way...
see what you have to do is.....let time do it....
but it helps to spend ALOT of time with your friends, get a puppy, and cry......you just have to let the tears go first....
and your not ready to look for someone else when you look for someone just like him....just wait....
watch funny movies,funny shows on TV...do things that make you happy.....and it helps alot to get with someone to get over that someone....i know its wrong to that....but it helps....
=].....and STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM.....just keep your head up...and you'll find a better someone soon...=].......
2007-07-30 21:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time...you try to fill the void with positive activities and interests..don't be obsessed and that is your only topic as this will drive ppl away.
the best revenge is to live well and have fun..it would stroke his ego to know that you are so devastated..don't get him that satisfaction.
it is hard but i know it can be done..been there, did that.
2007-07-30 20:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt die
its your ego holding on
.... let go of the pain .... talk to me if you need help ... i held on for 4 years once
2007-07-30 20:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by walter e 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with your friend or family member for a while
2007-07-30 20:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by Alvin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋