im 14 and im "dating" this guy i really like. he really likes me back. my mom doesnt know though and she says im not allowed to. he knows she doesnt know but lately we talk about guys a lot bc im starting high school. she said that at my age nothing would be serious anyway and i agree with her. its nothing really. i just trust him and talk to him like i would to any other friend only diff would be like during school dances. we wouldnt actually be going out like to a restaurant or anything. not even to the movies unless it was a big group of friends. my mom thinks he likes me and i said i think he does. i talk to him all the time. and he even says luv ya (or sometimes u) when we say bye at the end of the evening. i really like him i usually say u too when he says that.
how should i tell my mom or should i not tell her?
does he think this is more than a dance kinda relationship (meaning we dont go out we just go to events and stuff together and say we r dating and act like we r)?
2007-07-30 20:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by girlygirl21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thnx in advance
2007-07-30 20:08:02 · update #1
and im not dating him bc im not allowed to. i know i really like him though and i dont know what to do
2007-07-30 20:13:15 · update #2
when i asked if i was allowed to date ( i snuck into the subject i wasnt blunt) she said if she approves the guy. a week l8r i asked her if she would approve him and she said not yet. since then she has met him and all my other friends. i really want to tell her but i dont know how.
2007-07-30 20:16:59 · update #3
im betting ur mom will find out eventually. U shouldnt betray her trust before urs. U might as well just tell her. It doesnt have to be anything like 'Im dating him". Just say something like "i know he likes me and i kinda like him too". She cant get mad at u for liking him
2007-07-30 20:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Advidoct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe,
Your mother is just being protective, shes worried at the age that you are now you are becoming sexually active and thinking about boys. she still sees you as her "special little girl". you sit down and talk to her as an adult, reassure her that you know she is worried about you and that she has nothing to worry about, tell her you know about the birds and the bees and nothing will happen until you are older and ready. and when you are ready (which wont be for years yet), you will use protection, every time! tell her if you are on your own with a guy that nothing will happen and that you love her and respect her for looking out for you.
2007-07-31 04:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiiiiiiiiiii
Your problem is common problem of teenager.
i think ur mother is right. In this age nothing serious (Most of the Cases). Your age is for make career. In this age love and glamour attrakes us, bt it's only attraction.
So make only nd only friend. when u get elder, then u'll understand.
2007-07-30 20:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 21:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by andresen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confide in your mom. Ask her advice. This will give her the feeling you trust her and also keep her involved in your life.
Don't keep secrets like this from Mom.
2007-07-30 20:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it should be easy as you have already asked her the hard part, take a deep breath and ask her!!!
2007-08-07 05:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry on left other thing on time.
2007-07-30 20:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋