Whats wrong w/ me? Shes my cuzz and a girl! Im 15 and shes 12!~?

Question

She clings 2 me ALL da time. Every1 realizes she wants 2 get ma attention. She always asks me questions of wat I like and pretends 2 like da same thing. She hates it when i give some1 else attention. She tells her sister hates ma dads side of da family becuz they r takin me away from her. She interrupts ma conversations w/ some1 else and starts talkin bout things I like and how "supposibly" she likes 2 even though we no she doesnt rlly. She always jumps on me and hugs me and she ALWAYS sleeps over and hugs me in her sleep. I cant get confy when she does dat cuz i cant move. and wont let go. and she wakes me up cuz while shes sleepin(i think shes sleepin, her eyes r closed?)Ma shirt is half way up and shes still huggin me and her head and lips iz on ma shoulders.I got weirded out, i started ignorin her a bit. but then 1 day she waz again talkin 2 me bout things i like, ma cuzzies pushed her towards me 2 make us kiss and i saw it comin and i didnt move, i let them. y? im confused?

Answer 1

It sounds like you have a lot to deal with. I realize it might be hard but have you tried talking to your parents? If not you might try doing so and explain to them that some of her actions make you uncomfortable.

Her actions are not appropriate but like you she's young and feelings things that are probably confusing to her. The things you can do are to maintain your distance from her. If she stays over. Sleep in a separate room, even if it means sleeping on the couch. Try not to be alone with her. You are far more mature then her so it's up to you to set clear boundaries as to what behavior you'll allow and what you won't.

At your age I can see how all this can be very confusing and must again suggest you speak to a trusted adult. There might be things going on in this girls life that you don't know about and that is why she is acting so inappropriate. By telling an adult what is going on your also protecting yourself. Should she ever accuse you of anything down the line you can turn to the person you told and they can back you up.

If you can't talk to someone in your family try the boys town crisis hotline.

1-800-448-3000

Answer 2

She admires you a lot!! Just tell her that you enjoy her company, but that you are getting older, and will not be able to spend as much time with her. You should feel flattered that she thinks that highly of you, but don't let her start depending on you too much because eventually, you will start dating and not have the time for her.

Answer 3

well maybe she just wants to be like you. but you should tell her to chill the hell out. i mean, it'll hurt her feelings, but she'll get over it. that's wierd anyway. and about the kissing thing, either you have a slow reaction time, or you need help. only you know why you want to kiss your cousin...ew.

Answer 4

has she had (womenly experiences) in the past?

how big, what color, and what style was the bra you were wearing?

jk...

She is just admiring you. When i was 5 i would follow my 16 yr old step brother around and pretend to like his dumb rap music. (which i enjoy now)

Answer 5

u need to tell her to knock it off
explain to her why this is wrong
unless you want to be an inbred lesbian

Answer 6

OH MY GOD CHILD this is serious you need to let someone know to keep you two away from each other for gods sake don't touch that little girl for GODS sake SHE IS A KID!!!!!!!!
THAT IS SICKENING. YOU NEED TO KEEP AWAY FROM HER BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING STUDY. YOU ARE READING INTO THINGS WAAAAAAAAAYYYYY OFF BASE FOR GODS SAKE CALL Y OUR LOCAL HELP LINE/911 JUST GET HELP!!!!!!FROM SOMEONE EMAIL ME WITH YOUR INFO AND I'LL MAKE SOME CALLS FOR YOU. GOD I FEEL NAUSEATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE GET HELP DON'T TOUCH THAT CHILD READ YOUR BIBLE PSALM 23/27. PLEASE PLEASE DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!