She is 14 years old and refuses to wear clothes at all when she is home. I normally wouldn't have a problem with this except that she does it when we have company over also. She says she wants to be seen as god intended her to be seen. I don't think it's appropriate for people (espesially men) to see her this way. How can I change this behavior?
2007-07-30 16:10:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
shes too old to walk around without clothes... u should make her wear clothes and if she refuses take something away from her like her cell phone or ipod or dont allow her to have company..
2007-07-30 16:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
im only 14 myself but i would never walk around naked...You should take all her cloths away because you menchioned she likes to walk around the house only so take everysingle cloths HIDE IT GOOD! i know it seems mean but put a towel in her draw so if she wants to leave the house anyware she will learn that she has to have cloths on no matter if shes home or not and i dont think she will walk out the house naked I WOULDNT!
2007-07-31 03:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Is this a new behavior? If so it might be a sign she's been abused. If she's enjoyed being nude for some time you just need to put your foot down and require her to wear clothes or a robe when she's outside her bedroom.
2007-07-30 23:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well if she really wants to walk around naked because she thinks that's how God intended her to be then maybe you should have her read the part in Genesis where God gave the human race shame and had them cover their naked butts up.
2007-07-31 03:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by tbabie20 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no offense but i think this is kind of funny. Ask her why she isn't embarrased and why she wont put some clothes on. Theres probablly a reason shes doing this maybe for attention? bring her to a therapist
2007-08-01 00:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring over boys from school she hates every day. She will imediately stop that behavior. Also, try buying her really good looking clothes but only let her wear them around the house, Girls love cute/goodlooking clothing and this will give her sufficent reason to wear some.
2007-07-30 23:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by THE ONE! 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
This is attention getting behavior and she sure is getting it. Take advantage of a moment when there is no other issues at hand and talk to her about modesty and appropriateness around guests. Don't continue to feed her current behavior with attention.
2007-07-30 23:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by angelfish 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
You're the parent, tell her it's your house rules.
The rules still apply when nobody else is home too.
Kids will try every way to push your buttons.
They are trying to test the limits, & your resolve.
It's just the start of the power struggle, nip it now!
2007-07-30 23:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Robert S 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be doing this outside of her own room, with the curtains closed. If she insists on doing this out side of her room, ban her from friends coming to visit, leaving the house, TV etc.
2007-07-31 00:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Gin 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
wow....14?! i thought u were gonna say 3 or something!! well tell her it's extremely inappropriate and it puts EVERYONE in an extremely uncomfortable position...tell her not to only think about herself....she should think about others and how they would feel about her being naked...that's how god intended her to be-considerate.....tell her she's also putting herself in danger (disgusting pedofiles)..and also tell her it's not socially acceptable and people will think she's weird and strange for it...of course dont tell her this in a way that will make her feel bad....try to make her understand it in a non-confrontational way!!! good luck!!! ; D
2007-07-30 23:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by *Fluorescent Adolescent* 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋