there's a girl i've liked for several weeks. we met through a mutual friend.
i see her pretty often at a cafe we both go to a lot. she sometimes seems flirty (kicking leg under table, laughing at my most awful jokes, long eye contact and a constant smile, joking/teasing, etc.)
today, the place was crowded and i was in kind of a bad mood. so, i sat very far from her and said little or nothing to her when she was there (she was with a friend of hers).
i'm usually much more friendly. but i didnt want to seem clingy and also i wasn't in a mood to talk much.
was i too unfriendly? will she think i don't like her? help!
2007-07-30 15:51:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a right to be having a bad day. And unless I missed something, you're not in any relationship with her. But be sure you go back pretty soon IN A GOOD MOOD and do some flirting. That will reassure her...in case you ever decide to ask her out. That would probably be the logical thing to do.
2007-07-30 15:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the age. it sounds like you're somewhat over 18- that in mind shes probably around the same age as you . if she was younger with hormones raging she probably would have gone home and thought forever about what she did wrong and might think that you aren't interested older? i think she'd understand that we all have those days . i would just make sure, well if you are interested, to be extra friendly the next time you see her or maybe even apologize and tell her you were just having a bad day but remember to not be overly nice sometimes thats just as bad as not being nice at all. good luck :]
2007-07-30 16:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not have even noticed, but to be safe, next time you see her, call her, or email, you might casually recognize you were being unfriendly, and apoligize for being distant, because you were having a bad day and you would rather seem a little distant than be unpleasant (or something along those lines)
everyone has days like that, so she should be understanding.
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2016-10-19 08:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by rambhool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could probably talk to her and if she mentions your behavior, you could be truthful or you could point out that she was with a friend and you didn't want to disturb her. I'd go with telling the truth, honesty is usually best.
2007-07-30 15:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by sirmoosta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋