what does it mean when my girlfriend says her ex-boyfriend's name to me by mistake ?

Question

when we get intimate in the bed, she says his name by mistake. p.s. she had been with him for 2 years, and we hav e been together for 3 and a half months, do i have to be concerned about that, and does she still love him. thanks :D

Answer 1

No she doesn't still love him. He's still in her head just because he's been around for 2 years. It's all good.

Answer 2

It's only a harmless slip. Don't worry, mistakes happen. If she's been going out with him for so long, obviously she'd have trouble remembering the present. I think she's over him. As my own mistake, once I called my father my friend's name. If I can make such a stupid slip-up, she could easily call the guy next to her an old name that she's called for two years. If she realized her mistake straight away, then she was focused on you and wasn't thinking of her ex.

Answer 3

2 yrs is alot. she might just remember from when her and her ex got intimate in bed. shes only been with u for 3 and a half months.so she mite slip up a few times. it probablly will happen a couple more times maybe. but wen your datin 4 lik 2 yrs she'll kno ur name. dont be concerned

Answer 4

It was probably just a mistake, but you should let her know that you've noticed and it bothers you. If she does it too much, then there might be a problem. It doesn't necessarily mean that she still loves him. She was just used to saying that name for so long that its almost natural now. Ask her to work on it.

Answer 5

She shouldn't be thinking of him at all at anytime specially in bed with you. That is no mistake her saying her b/f name while having sex with you. I'm female and we don't make mistake like that that's why i say she was thinking of him at the time. Sorry but there it is now what are you going to do about it.If i were you i would tell her if it happens again it's over between us.

Answer 6

It just means that she's not over her ex. If your Girl is really in to you she would have been thinking of you 24/7. Hence, she would not make the mistake of saying his name while she is with you.

Answer 7

It means absolutely nothing. I have a problem where I sometimes think of my girlfriend, but think of the wrong name, usually of my other female friends, ones I have zero interest in. It just sort of happens. Luckily, I haven't accidently called her the wrong name, but it doesn't mean I don't love her any less, or that I like some other girl (seriously, the idea of dating some of these girls makes my skin crawl. They're like sisters to me)

Answer 8

I would not be concerned. It is hard after 2 years to not say the persons name...it is not because she loves them.

Answer 9

I know this might sound silly but there is this old saying that when someone says another person's name by accident, it could mean that that other person is thinking or talking about your girlfriend. But then again he could just still be in her head. I mean, the only way to know is to ask her does she still have feeling for him. I know it might be awkward to hear his name during intamcy but hey. :) Hope I helped!

Answer 10

She might still love him.

or

When you get intimate with someone for two years, you get used to saying their name and their name only. When the person changes but the situation doesn't then it might be hard to change a habit. Like if someone drove you to work everyday for two years, then one day someone else did, you'd still say "Thanks nick" even if it was scott who drove you.

weird example. but it makes sense.