why am I stuck in the journey of my life?! I'm getting nowhere fast! should I end this journey?

Question

i'm 31

Answer 1

You need to be born again. If you were truly born again, you would not be thinking this way. You need a spiritual "reboot".
http://www.schneblin.com/studies/pdfs/getting_past_the_guard.pdf

Answer 2

Why end on a sour note? You can end this journey anytime, but what if tomorrow or around the corner new and great thing were coming your way?

Once you go you can't come back - this is just a valley - and it WILL PASS. You may not know how or when, but that is half the excitement.

Stick around awhile longer......31 is just the nuimber of years you have been breathing and you are actuallly very young, to be giving up so soon....

Answer 3

Well you could, but the whole point of life is the journey. So if you don't like your direction then change it. I find when I am bored with life if I have a new dream makes things so much better. So find a dream and go with it!Hobbies, a new job, going back to school, a trip to a foreign place...There is so much to do and you are still so young why not write down all your dreams and act like you only have a short time to do everything. Then do it all! \

Or to make you feel better about your life start talking to people that are about to die for real...not by choice and see how they see life. IT will give you a new perspective. I bet if everyone lived like they were going to die tomorrow then we would all laugh more, love more, and live more...

Answer 4

Never. The end is the END!

Try a different path. Write down everything you never did, then do one each day, one at a time. Update your list daily.

That is a journey, that can never end.
Doing what you haven't done. Hence, can never be stuck.

By doing 1 thing a week, 52 a year. You will have done more in a year, than most do in a lifetime. So you're getting somewhere in life, FAST!

Answer 5

no, do not end this journey...
life has its ups and has its downs....
as time goes, it seems that things just fall into place.
god has a quest for each of us... maybe this is just one of those times that god thinks you have it too easy... and it is on you, to overcome these feelings, and find the good in what is happening... so you can learn, and go on... knowing what has happened, and play that to more important things that will come your way. i am a true believer in karma, and miracles... and would hate it if you were to end your journey shortly just because you didn't like what was going on.

take a deep breath, and look around you. sit back, and watch time pass you by.... note how many people get in touch w/ you, for something... how many times the phone does not ring... which flowers pop up in the morning.... and how many leaves fall off the tree in the front yard. who knows... you just may find yourself somewhere along the line.... what ever it is, it isn't going to last for very long, and you will, like all other things, get over it, learn from it, and make better decisions because of it. i hope i helped, and i didn't mean to offend you. i wish only the best for you, and it will get better. TC

Answer 6

"slip out the back, jack
make a new plan, sam
no need to be coy, roy
just listen to me
hope on the bus, gus . . ."

Get what i'm saying? Do you smell what I'm stepping in?

Change . . . if what you are doing is not working, stop doing it!

The guy went to the Doctor . . . "Hey Doc . . . it hurts when I do this ". . . the Doctor says, "Stop doing that"

31 is young . . . I got sober at 30 . . . I had nothing . . . everything I owned fit into the back of a pickup truck with room left over . . . now I own stuff, owe some classy people a lot of money, and have a wonderful relationship with God. I work everyday, have friends, a wife, a dog . . . life is good . . . and it all started like this:

"God, Please help me . . ."

and I meant it . . . and I stuck to it . . . and I live my life with the understanding that without God, I am nothing.

Reach out to someone . . . you know who that would be . . .

Answer 7

I don't think you have to end anything. Life is pretty strange and mine has seemed stuck for the last 10 years! (and I'm 51!) Sometimes things get me really down but then I look at the little things in life and they really make me appreciate the fact that I am here on earth. Just watching the leaves flutter in the wind, watching the clouds float by, listening to the birds outside; I feel grateful to have those things in my life. It may sound corny but thats how I am! I think life is suppposed to be about all of the little, everyday things that often go unnoticed. Take a breath. Life shouldn't be so fast.....

Answer 8

Should you end your journey?

I imagine there will be several answers posted in response to this question and the majority of them will, most likely, contain half-hearted, sympathetic responses imploring that you not 'end your journey' by saying things like:
"Life is too important to throw away"...
"You will only hurt those you leave behind"
...and...
"It takes more courage to go on living than it does to commit suicide"
etc...etc...etc...
Hell, a few may even post a suicide HOT-LINE number for you...:-))

The truth is that YOU are the only one who knows what you are going through; others can only speculate.
Given this, I cannot say whether you should or should not 'end your journey':
That, my friend, is up to you,... and you alone.

However, what I CAN do is leave you with this, as it is the wisest thing I have ever read on the subject at hand:
---..."We have no power to prevent ourselves being born: but we can rectify this error - for it is sometimes an error. When one 'does away with' oneself one does the most estimable thing possible: one thereby almost deserves to live..."...---
F. W. Nietzsche

I wish you the best of luck, - with whatever you decide to do...;-)
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Answer 9

No. Don't end your journey.
You aren't stuck, I promise. It might seem like that, but I think you should take another look around and take a second to realize all of the things in your life that are genuinely good. You're living, you have a computer, you feel anxiety, stress, and pain, which means that you can feel happiness, joy, and be lighthearted. Rethink your situation, shift your perspective 2 degrees, and I think you'll realize that you're still going in your journey.

Answer 10

It could be far worse if you end it without Jesus. You may have cried out to Him but a lot of people get frustrated with God because God doesn't answer thier prayers the way they want them answered. They think He isn't listening or real. I have lived long enough to be thankful for the prayers that He didn't answer according to my wishes. I don't know your problems but I do know that Jesus is more than a Savoir from Sin and Hell, He is someone who can be there as a friend. Someone who can teach you another way of doing things so that what ever it is that has gotten you down can become dim in comparison to His ways of doing things. The tools you need to get past this place in your life you don't have currently. I have been depressed and wanted to die too. Perhaps you can read about some of the good things that have happened to me since accepting Jesus. Life isn't a bed of roses but God's promise to me is that even though there are many afflictions that I will face, He will bring me out of them all. That is a great promise and I couldn't get that kind of a promise from anyone else.

My Book if free to read at:
http://christiantshirts.com/sup/CH/christiantshirts/custom/The_Process_The_Pain_&_The_Power.pdf

I don't know what in particular you are going through but know that everyone has problems but the creator of the Universe can help you get to another day and another until one day you will find you have walked right out of the major difficulties because of a new way of doing things.

Answer 11

I think that it's a bad idea to choose when to end the journey before your natural time. You just don;t know what's out there. Also, alot of the time, we all hit ruts and they're usually just tests or something that brings us to a different level in the end. The trick is to know what you want, what makes you happy and keep trying! You obviously have a purpose in this world, that's why you're here! Now get out there and find it!