I know a girl who always makes it a point to flirt with a guy I'm dating, interested in, or even simply talking too. She'll interrupt us, ignore me and talk to him, etc. Are women like this insecure? The guys I'm with don't really respond to it. But it makes me not to want to be with a guy around this girl. It seems like when women even have their guy, they still act this way. Am I being too passive?
2007-07-30 12:31:55 · 10 answers · asked by sugar1973 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't mind if my husband flirts with other women. The girl you are talking about go kick her @ss. I don't mind a woman occasionally flirt but to much and I would loose my cool.
2007-07-30 12:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by wolfkiss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to B slap her. I'm kidding. (Maybe just a little) ;p
Most of the time, women who act this was can be a little insecure. They may look at you and wonder: "What is it that she has that I don't?" Especially if you're attracting the type of guy she wishes for herself.
The best way to deal with someone like this is to call her out on it, in a neutral way. A majority of the time women get away with it because no one ever says anything. If you confront her in a nonchalant way it won't give her the satisfaction of getting you riled up. Better yet, do it in front of your man and/or an audience. A little humiliation should put her in her place. Especially once she realizes all that effort she put out was on a man who wasn't even interested.
2007-07-30 19:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by christyn79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not being too passive, the girl is starved for any attention she can get from a man.Her insecurity is just the tip of the iceburg.She dosen't even know she's making a fool of herself. Let her go, and sit back and grin when she does it.
2007-07-30 19:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by kopesetic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this sales insurance agent guy who I love very much and he is a very hot, very attractive, very handsome and very good-looking man and he has a great body. I am hoping and praying every day and night that one day he will finally realize that I am the only one for him and that the two of us are meant to be together. If I was married to him and another woman would come up to him and start to flirt with him I would ignore it because I know that he loves me very much and that he only wants to be with me. You should ignore her because you are the lucky one because he is with you.
2007-07-30 19:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i hope this female is not a person that you call a friend! second dont worry if the guy is worth having he wouldnt even pay your friend any attention! look at it like this thats a good test for you to find a keeper!
2007-07-30 19:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by highking937 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to remember is, "WHO IS HE GOING HOME WITH?" Feel proud someone else thinks your man is hot. The more you act like it bothers you, the more she will do it. Also remember, you could make your man think you don't trust him.
2007-07-30 19:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by firebabe208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to ignore her --- if the guy was interested in her he would ignore you --- whatever her reason it will annoy her even more if you both ignore her --- sooner or later she will give up and leave you alone ---- best wishes
2007-07-30 19:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dating him and she flirts with him just tell her "Back off I'm dating him" and hope she stops or tell him to tell her "I have a girlfriend" Hope I helped
2007-07-30 19:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Scarlett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slut she thinks she is something but really isnt she is trying to get you upset so dont bring any guys around her and ignore her.
2007-07-30 19:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be super nice and include yourself in their conversation, doesn't hurt to hold his hand either
2007-07-30 19:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋