How can I say this in the nicest way possible? Theres a guy that really likes me, but I like someone else. I just want 2 b friends, but he always wants to hug me and wrap his arm around me. I get soooo uncomforatable, but the thing is that hes not a bad guy, I just don't like him. Hes a great friend, but 1) I couldn't see him as anything else, 2) i really like someone else who pretty much likes me back. How can I break it to him that I don't like him that way? Iv told him this but he doesn't listen-_-, i don't want 2b mean, but hes not the guy I like. Plz and thank-you.
2007-07-30 11:50:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him it's great to have him for a friend, but you are not ready to make it into a heavy scene. If he comes wanting to hug you, turn it into a joke and tell him to lighten up. Try not to let him invade your space, that can be very uncomfortable. Keep that bit of distance between you. And seeing him less frequently would help
2007-07-30 11:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by bluebell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say but if you told him already you only like him as friends, you may very well have to be mean. Well you can tell him in a nice way, if he can't accept you as only a friend then it's best both of you stop speaking to each other.
2007-07-30 19:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not putting yourself in those "touchy, feely" situations. Make sure you and the guy you like are together when he is around. If that doesnt work, tell him you might not be able to hang out anymore if he doesn't back off.
2007-07-30 18:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by firebabe208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend are just friend. There is no way to go around. If so, anyone can be super nice to you and touch you. Right? Therefore the answer is no. You have to said it.
2007-07-30 18:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it nicely, that'll be telling him "I don't like you right now, but if my current crush doesn't work out, maybe you and I could hook, as I'd be so sad I'd lower my standards to your level." Be blunt, firm and clear.
2007-07-30 18:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are with your friends (including him) start talking about the guy you really like...
2007-07-30 18:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by ChioPio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to say that nicely and not to hurt the other person
2007-07-30 18:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by James 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
james is right.
2007-07-30 18:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by islandgrl2011 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋