So, women, after having kid(s), does your body return to it's oringinal goodness?

Question

As I get older (20s) more and more single women have kids. My friend says that your bodies will forever be changed after kids. This has me afraid of even trying to date a woman with kids (among other reasons). But can you tell me, seriously, does your body return to it's same goodness you had before the kid(s)

Also, the vagina, does it return to normal? [this is a serious question]

Also, I'm speaking in terms of dating a woman who already has kids, not a woman who has one of my own kids.

Answer 1

i was a total hottie before kids... and after, my body snapped back, and not only do i have a great body, but a little more of that tight waist, tight butt, perky boobs with some hips... and not big hips, just "hold onto" hips... after i had her. i went to about 100 pounds after a month of having the baby. To be gross, but answer the second question, i ripped, so they sewed me up tighter than I was before i was pregnant... it was awesome & my husband LOVES it. it depends on the woman, i know im 7 months pregnant now and people can't tell im pregnant, some women are HUGE right now in this stage. it depends ON THE WOMAN. have sex with her and find out before you commit. (honestly) that's the only way to know, i have heard from my two doctors, one OBGYN one family doc that the second baby can actually stretch you out a little, and more then that it gets gradually worse. But that doesn't mean loose, it just means, not a virgin.

Answer 2

Well, that is a hard one. It all depends on the women. I have had 3 kids. I am weigh less then what I did before I became pregnant. I am 118 after 3 kids. Some women gain a lot of weight and don't want to loss it, or let me say are too lazy to exercise. Some women get stretch marks and some don't. Some get saggy boobs. It just depends on the person. I am not sure if you are talking about outer body changes or changes to the lower region. Yep, that goes back to original size. I have asked. Maybe if you've had 5 or 6 kids vaginally it might be different.
I think that if someone wants to look good and feel good about there body then she will make it happen

Answer 3

Depends on the woman - most women's bodies are different in some way, but not always "worse", just different. My feet are bigger, and I am shaped differently, but if I were single and a man found me attractive, how would he know (or care) that I used to look a little different?

With regard to the vaginal question - most people (men & women) I know will tell you not to worry - everything stays just fine.

Answer 4

no, it will not return to the exact condition it was in before, but you will not beable to notice the changes. For instances... the hips will get slightly wider. Unless a woman works at it she will not be exaclty the same, however you shouldnt hold that against any woman.. after all if your father held it agaisnt your mother ... where would you be?

Answer 5

no, it will always be different after pregnancies

my boobs went up 2 cups, and my body is way different than before i had kids, loosing weight after having a baby is the hardest thing to do, especially when you have more than one to take care of

i tore both times, and they stitched me, making it tighter down there, so that was different

Answer 6

Seems a little superficial to me! But sometimes yes and sometimes. no.......there are things women can do to help the problem. But if you're not ready to be a father...or are just looking for sex, you probably shouldn't date women with children.

Answer 7

Usually no, you become stretched out with stretch marks and your feet are one size bigger. I dont want to go on, but I will say it is all worth it.

Answer 8

mine got even better, I went to a size 0, but that was from breastfeeding..i got these HUGE boobs and my double chin was gone! but once breastfeeding was done, my boobs lost existance, but my body needed to be kept in shape to keep it up.