I'm thinking i want to go back to being bisexual... somehow i felt less dirty then, but as a full-on lesbian i can't ever shake the guilt.....
2007-07-30 08:19:06 · 14 answers · asked by carla here 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
They are equally sin-less. How can you be anything but what you were created to be? Be true to yourself, and you'll never go wrong. Whoever told you that being a lesbian is something to feel guilty about, something to feel dirty about, was wrong. It is dangerous to repress who you are. That will do nothing but lead to mental problems later on in life, various psychoses that will only be solved with expensive therapy. I think this is one of the most dangerous things that the church does, making people feel guilty for their sexuality. If God indeed made us, and indeed loves us, how can being who he made us to be, be wrong?
2007-07-30 08:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Molten Orange 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You can either be straight, or you can be gay. Since homosexuality and bisexuality are heavy on the sinning scale (you shouldn't even be debating this), you have to think about which situation is going to be less aggrivating. Gays won't appreciate how you can easily flip-flop from one side to another when they're trying so adamantly to try to convince the straight community that liking the same sex is a natural phenomenon instead of a personal choice, and whatever straight men you come in contact will only INITIALLY think that you being bi is freakin' hot, but will soon be angry with you for wanting to sleep with women when he figures that all you really need is a good man.
What's it going to be? Straight, or gay?
2007-07-30 15:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is just as sinful to be a lesbiian as it is to be bisexual because it is the act in which you are sinning that causes the sin and if your having sex without being married to that person it also is a sin. Also if you think of someone in a sexual way that also is sinning.
Get a study Bible and read where to find where it says these things i think its corinthians and romans or something
May God Bless You
2007-07-30 15:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not less sinful-they are both sins. Jesus said in the Bible that there is no such thing as a 'little' or 'big' sin, but rather that He sees all sin as equal.
2007-07-30 15:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual desire is different for everyone, if you are bisexual, okay, but don't change because of public persecution, God said love thy neighbor, not love thy different sex neighbor. Let the hate mail begin.
2007-07-30 15:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, I cannot imagine why you would feel guilty about either state of your sexuality, you are as the creator made you. I suggest to you that your guilt arrises not from whom you choose to sleep with, but perhaps how many you choose to sleep with. Stop being promiscuous, choose one partner and build a life.
2007-07-30 15:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think either is a sin but i guess being bi-sexual would be more sinful because that's just being greedy.
2007-07-30 15:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jake S 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who says your sexuality is a sin to begin with?
Some old dusty book that was written by men then re-edited countless times to fit the changing times and ideologies?
Be who you are, dont let anyone (or thing, idea) change that.
2007-07-30 15:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by Prometheus Cowboy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Technically, it's natural, because the fundies say that sexuality is a choice, so we must all be able to choose men or women (or other) and are bisexual by design.
2007-07-30 15:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
sin is sin
God created Men to be with the Women! that's it
2007-07-30 15:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Not of This World Returns 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋