When is a good time to have children?

Question

Im 24 years old and i've thought about having children from time to time. I know is a personal choice for people as to when they are ready, but I wanted a general opinion from other parents out there as to when they think is a solid age to have children?

Answer 1

I don't there is an "ideal age". Everyone is different when it comes to time. The best time to start a family is when both you and your signifcant other feel that you've both completed all/most of what you wanted to do as childness adults and are in a stable relationship. Whether it be finishing school or traveling across the world, these are kinds of things that you want as memories instead of dreams once a baby comes into your life. You don't want to spend 18 years saying "Man, i wish i did________ before _____ was born." A baby needs a loving and financially stable home, so as long as you have both, you're home will be a wonderful enviorment for children.
I think at whatever age you have all 3 of these things down is when you're ready to start a family. Best wishes to you and good luck! =]

Answer 2

It's best when you have a stabilized life, a marriage, a house and some money in the bank. But do not be lulled into a sense of security that you can just have a baby later. After 30, fertility may be an issue. So all things being equal, 29 is a good age because you've gotten most of your partying days behind you, you've developed a career or work history and that's about the age most people are ready to settle down.

Answer 3

Okay, so I had my twin boys when I was 22. I thought that I would never have kids until I turned up pregnant (my gyno told me I could not carry). I knew I wasn't ready, hell I didn't have a job nor did my husband... I think that it is what you do from the moment you are told..."you're pregnant" on that really matters... now I am a college student, and my husband has a terrific job.... Nothing really ever gets you prepared for how your life will change after having children... nothing........it is both a great responsibilty and a great joy... there are moments that I thought I would never make it through, and moments that I would not trade for a life time of being 22.....so, to answer your question (sorry for rambling on) if you feel you are ready, then do it... if you aren't sure...wait a while..you are still young. also, I do not agree with the person who said that your passport should be filled before having children..... There are things that will become hard for you to do after having kids, but if you love your children.....then you will never miss it.... I also enjoy doing lots of stuff with my beautiful family.we travel all the time......

Answer 4

It's not so much about the age,but about the maturity of a person and if they are financially and emotionally ready to be a parent...

I had my daughter at a very young age and I wasn't ready when I got pregnant, but you learn to grow and mature really quickly when you are young and about to bring a child into the world. Sometimes I wish I were older, it is definately hard to raise a child while trying to finish high school and college, but at the same time I never regret having my little girl and I wouldn't change any of it for the world. I love growing up with my daughter, and she has never been deprived of anything. She is my pride and joy and even though times are sometimes tough I know that I am a great mother and she is growing and learning everyday, and watching that is the most amazing feeling in the world.

Answer 5

Of course when you are financially stable, have a home, and a good guy that is committed for life and wants children as well. You have to be ready to give yourself to this little one for a long time being pregnant is a big responsability, your body is your babys home for almost 10 months :O) Also when that little one makes his or her appearance mommy has to be ready to wait on the little one hand and foot and hopefully daddy is willing to help out too. I have 5 of them and I love being a mom, started when I was 20 and am now 34. All girls (1yr, 8yrs, 11,12, &14) and no we are not trying for the boy :O) We are done. There is no solid age but I hear between 25 and 35 is a great time.

Answer 6

You know I don't think you ever really know until the little boogers are here. I am a mother of 2 under the age of 3. But I am having baby fever like crazy! I know that I'm not ready because my financial life is not what I'd prefer to have with 3(or more :) kids. I think most of the people are correct make sure that you have a stable lifestyle from every angle. One piece of advice that I've learned so far. Don't get so caught up on the hype that you have to give you kid(s) alot of stuff. We all have to provide for our children's needs but many children have grown up in a loving home and never had 1/2 the stuff that we try to give our kids. For example I purchased alot of toys for my kids and they'd rather play in the dirt with each other. I told you they were boogers! Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 7

Mid to late twenties is the best time to have children. I'm 20 years old right now, and I want to get married when I'm 22. I plan on having my first child when I'm 25 or 26 and my second at 28 or 29. I only want two kids and that way I'll have them before I turn 30. After I get married, I want to wait three years before having children because I want a lot of time to enjoy my life with my husband.

Answer 8

It is best to have children when you are still young. After your 30's it gets more difficult to conceive and stay pregnant. It is also better to have a child when you have a stable home, career or job, and a partner that shares your feelings. There is also nothing wrong with being a single parent! So good luck to you and best wishes!

Answer 9

Yes, just like everyone else says. Make sure your money and marriage is stable because when your child gets over, you dont want him/her to be caught in the middle of a divorce or financial problems. I am 13 years old, and trust me, those two things are not fun. So think about how you life is right now and see if you will be able to fully support your child to its fullest! Good luck!

♥ Priscilla

Answer 10

My husband and I were married at 20. I gave birth in May of this year and I'm 25. I guess it just depends on you as to when you're ready. Honestly I wasn't ready but when the doctor said Mr. and Mrs. Davidson you're pregnant we both were so excited. So when you think you're ready to a parent then that's when you should start your family.