I am 14 and I am REALLY shy around guys when it comes to talking to them or even just being around them. When I do get a boyfriend (I haven't had one yet) will I become comfortable around him after a while and be myself around him or will I always be shy around my boyfriend???
2007-07-30 06:02:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not shy around your immediate family, or your good friends right?
Once you get a boyfriend, they wil become (hopefully) a VERY good friend, and someone you will trust like family. Just the same as you aren't shy around them, you will not be shy around him either....be patient.
2007-07-30 06:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to realize you have nothing to be shy about. There is no reason having a boyfriend if he doesn't have an idea of who you are. Look for guy friends before you think of the next step. Once you feel comfortable talking to guys, it will be an easier question to answer. But just because you can talk to guys doesn't mean you will open up to your boyfriend. I dated a girl for almost two years and I thought her father was dead for the first year. I didn't really know who she was until after we broke up... So the answer is up to you.
2007-07-30 06:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be shy around a new boyfriend .. especially if you have only been going out for 2 days When i got my first boyfriend in year 9 we didn't even talk for 3 days in school cos we started going out in the holidays and we saw eachother and we both way to shy to talk to eachother! So don't worry its normal.. and it will get easier and you will get used to it :) Just take it slowly with him.. like when you see him at lunch and in the morning just ask how he is, what he did the night before.. hows school going etc. And slowly you'll get more comfortable and more confidence around him :) Its completely normal dont worry Good luck! ♥
2016-05-17 22:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it; things happen naturally for a reason. Shyness is just one way to help you go slow and make better choices. You will gradually warm up to the people you meet and become more open with them. Think of it like a new pair of shoes, a little stiff at first but as time goes by they get more comfortable until they become your favorite.
Guys like shy girls so never lose that quality completely.
2007-07-30 06:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Huba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change in time. I think the most changes I had were from 16 to 24, I am nowhere near how I was before that. I seem shy, I feel shy but alone with my husband, I can be who I want because I know he loves me and he is with me for who I am. You are shy around strangers I will suppose, but once you are with someone who you feel you can be who you are naturally, it will be great.
2007-07-30 06:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Laurita 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now you are just lacking confidence with yourself. You won't always be shy around guys. At first it's hard to open up, but you will. Having a common interest helps. Don't force a conversation, if he's the right guy it will will just come naturally. You'll be fine.....
2007-07-30 06:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Oppna to tal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very shy type of person too. Until I met my first boyfriend, it seem I turn to be someone else, I never knew I'm a talkative person with him LOL. So, don't worry, you won't get shy with your sooner boyfriend^^, all you have to do is try to talk with him. Get a good conversation and be yourself. And if you still shy, just tell him that you are shy LOL. He will accept that. And if he don't accept because you are a shy person, he must be a dumb dumb. ;)
2007-07-30 06:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by .Chelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girly I know what you mean I was your age when i was with my first boyfriend and Iam a VERY VERY shy girl. When i got with him I was shy around him and it took a year for me to finally get used to him and act myself...he hated it but he still put up with it. Now im with someone else and im not shy at all!!!! It just takes time to get used to and you should take as long as you need to. Even though he would threaten to break up with me if i didnt start talking i still took my time. Dont let it break you down i know its hard to just start talking but as long as you give yourself time then you will be able to feel comfortable around him.
Hope I Helped
2007-07-30 06:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is you personal character and u need to come out of the box but i feel once u get a boyfriend, you will start sharing ur feelings and that would make you very comfotable. You wont feel shy anymore and once married ther is no question of feeling shy to you hubby.
2007-07-30 06:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by chocoguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! You'll be shy once you meet a guy at first, but then you'll end up opening up and you could become quite outgoing. Once you're comfortable with a person, you'll be much less shy.
2007-07-30 06:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋