he was seperated and started dating me but now shes back. he says he doesnt want her and will be moving out, whether we be together or not. he works the same job as me and it is tearing me up to see him. its not my fault when she wasnt in the picture but now shes back and how am i suppose to just let go of my feelings like if it never happened. he says he wants to be with me but he needs to get hisself together. what about me? i feel so lost and used at times torn up also and at the same time want him. im so confused plz help.
2007-07-30 05:58:50 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm in the same situation! i know it's hard to let go... since he's telling you she's out of the picture...i think you sould give him a chance , but don't rush into anything... let him take care of his deal with the wife , and then you can finish what you started... there is NO WAY anything good can come out of this sort o thing.. it is not fair to any of u... Just put it on ice for a while.. let things go on its own accord...
2007-07-30 06:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by figure v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel you have found your soulmate but surely some kind of morals should stop you two!!!!! That situation is all around just plain wrong and heartless. If he's willing to leave his wife for another woman, wouldn't you think if he found better, he would do the same to you? Then where would your soulmate be???? The fact that marriage is a contract of love and commitment "through sickness and in health" that doesn't say very much for either one of you!!!!
2016-05-17 22:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seperated or not, he was still married and should have been trying to work on his marriage. it doesn't matter if he doesn't want to be with his wife anymore, you don't need to get mixed up in all his drama. you told him it's over and you need to stand ur ground honey, no matter how hard it is. if he were to leave his wife and end up with you, who's to say that he won't do the same to you that he's doing now with his wife? he can be feeding you all type of lies...move on
2007-07-30 06:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who loves you doesnt hurt you, or say mean things, or promises to give you the world. He didnt have enough respect for his wife to get a divorce first then see you. so what makes you think he will respect you? get your stuff together and move on without him. he cheated on his wife with you ......and you are going to be different right? well maybe not from the next girl who he cheats on with you.
2007-07-30 06:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by $martA$$.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up! She was never out of the picture and you got played. He is a scumbag and doesn't deserve someone like you (assuming you are a good person). He will never be yours and if you continued to date and got married, who's to say he won't cheat on you too!
2007-07-30 06:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by whobeme021 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stay way from him. He needs to figure out what he wants and get there before he can be with you the way he should be. I know it is hard, but stay away from him and try to get out there. It will help you move on.
2007-07-30 06:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be with you, the ex would not have moved in, take him for what he is, a two timer that used you, and move on.
2007-07-30 06:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take dirty pics with you and another guy and send to him
2007-07-30 06:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋