I would give my blessing if they seemed happy however I would make it clear in no uncertain terms that if He broke my daughter's heart I would have to kill him. then I would give him a big hug and wish him luck.
2007-07-30 06:06:51
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you answered your own question when you asked "would you look at the fact that they were both mature adults capable of making their own decision and asking for their blessing due to how they felt about family and respect."
Obviously they love each other and you have a lot of respect for them, so I say yes I would give my blessing!
Good luck!
2007-07-30 20:46:32
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answered by Reba 6
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I think everyone is different. When I first met my fiance, we were friends at first- but unseperable, seeing each other every single day. After a month, it turned into more than friendship, and we dated for a few months, and by accident (while on the b.c. pill) I became pregnant. We didn't want to rush marriage because of the baby because there are divorces in our families- but our love just kept growing after just a few months together. We are now coming up on our 3rd yr anniversary, and our son is almost 2 yrs old. My fiance just asked me to marry him, and we plan to marry next year on our 4th yr anniversary.
I really think it all depends on the couple. I think the father could give his opinion on how he feels, but also respect them and their decision. I think it is best to wait at least a couple of years or more to marry, because anything could happen. For myself, I've felt like my fiance has been my lifetime partner since the first day I met him. Before him, I was in a relationship where my ex and I dated off and on for 4 yrs, and it wasn't going anywhere, and I didn't have any trust left with him. I think people know when he or she is the right one when they find the person. And time will tell- you wait a couple of years to do it, see where you are at at the time and go from there. When it comes to love, there shouldn't be any rush. Getting married right away won't tell that person you love them more than you already do.
But again, it's completely up to you and your partner and what you both feel comfortable with doing.
Good luck!
2007-07-30 13:38:11
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answered by m930 5
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I think it would kind of depend on how old these "mature adults" were. My fiance and I have been dating since October 29, known each other since april of last year, and engaged since Easter. My mom has given her blessing, and she is somewhat conservative. She is basing it on the fact that we obviously love each other, are good for each other, and at 37 and 39 are old enough to know what we want and what we don't want.
2007-07-30 14:15:36
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answered by bugaboo 2
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I guess I would give my blessing but feel it would be better if they dated longer. It does seem too short of a time for them to date before marriage.
2007-07-30 13:03:31
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answered by opalescent_angel 5
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I would respect her wishes no matter what if she is an adult, but i personally think people should date for no less than 2 yrs before they decide to get married.
2007-07-30 12:59:25
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answered by axeps2 1
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Unless the guy is a real jerk you should give your blessing because they are going to do it anyway if they are adults.
2007-07-30 13:01:46
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answered by Luv2Answer 7
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Justbe there for her, I know you only want the best for her. But if she says she happy and wants this person to be their for her
respect her wishes. Do what makes her happy!
2007-07-30 13:41:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Give your blessing no matter what. She is your daughter.
2007-07-30 12:59:26
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answered by Solar Ball 4
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Give her your blessings. She will do it anyways.. you should atleast be able to say that you had something to do with it.!!!!
2007-07-30 13:34:35
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answered by *Saved by God's grace* 2
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