A few days ago I wrote to get advice about a man who just will not leave me alone.Thank you for the advice.?
OHHHHH! He is making me crazy and sad.Please take a peek at my question from a few days ago.I didnt have enough room to write everything here.Here are some of the things that he says to me when I break up with him.What do you think?:
Why won't you let me be your boyfriend? Why don't you want me, like I want you? Why won't you be my girlfriend? I don't understand. I just want you to want me. I just want you to touch me, to hug me, to kiss me....I just want to be with you. Why won't you let me be your boyfriend?
Why can't I ever be happy? What am I doing wrong? Why do I always have to be alone? I don't understand. What's wrong with me? Why won't you be with me? I'm so sad. I'm so very sad & alone. And you won't be with me. No one will.
I tried so hard. I really tried to be your boyfriend. I tried to be good to you. As good as I can be & I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
Sonya, I'm so alone all the time. I don't want to be alone anymore. Why won't you be my girlfriend? Why can't we be happy together? I don't know what to do anymore. I'm trying so hard to be a good man. I don't know how to be better.
I wish you'd come back to me.
With love,
Kevin
2007-07-30 05:31:08 · 11 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I've read all of your other posts about this. Girl, you need to just STAY AWAY. Do NOT correspond with him anymore. Don't email. Don't phone. Because you were in one abusive relationship before, I imagine that it is hard for you to realize your true value and stay away from jerks like this. You probably need to work on yourself a bit too. Everyone you have asked this question from has said pretty much the same thing. STAY AWAY from that man. You are asking for trouble and he is rude and definately doesn't seem right in the head. You are wasting your time and energy with him and possibly putting yourself in danger. You need to find a loving relationship. Where a man appreciates you, is kind, thoughtful, sincere and treats you with respect. You need to learn that you DESERVE that.
2007-07-30 06:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uh, gee, the word pathetic keeps popping up in my haid. He sounds very "needy" and "clinging". Like he wants to smother you with these needs that he translates into passion and love. Definitely he needs a shrink rather than a girlfriend. Any girl would be afraid of , " if I can't have you than no one else will", Kevin. He is the type of person that makes people move out of the state with no forwarding address. Can't shake him loose? (stalker material) You have to be very careful when you are pretty girl. Some guys are more fascinated by beauty than the person. You may have to get a "restraining order" and definitely tell your family members that this guy is creeping you out. Do you have a burly Dad or other male role model that can put a little dose of reality into Mr. " I need you, I vant chew! Vhy don chew feel like me? Just let me crawl inside your head and fix that." You need to get away or put that dog to the curb! Good luck.
2007-07-30 12:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be overly infatuated with you, and it's hard to tell if it's dangerous or not. I can't really answer the question without knowing how serious and personal the relationship has been in the past, and why (other than the male is extremely needy and dependent) its ending. Are you doing more than corresponding? Are you meeting face to face, calling? Does he know where you live? Does he have a history of violence and/or substance abuse. How have his past relationships ended? I know, you wanted answers and I gave a lot of questions, but without that information, all anyone can do is advise you of the 50 ways to leave your lover.
2007-07-30 12:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would try to read your earlier question but it is evident that the man is trying to come back to you because he is unable to bear the separation. But if you were not comfortable with him, you should not yield to those pleadings and emotional blackmail (I am so lonely etc.). Let him find his friend and you find your friend. If he continues to harass you, report to police.
2007-07-30 12:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Swamy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to control you, don't feel guilty if you don't love him, sometimes things just don't work, especially if he is trying to make you feel guilty, tell this man he needs to seek counseling and if he doesn 't leave you alone you will contact the authorites!!
2007-07-30 12:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is all about control. Not love.
Drop him like a sack of potatoes.
He does not understand any part of no.
If he persists get a restraining order.
http://themeaningisyou.com
2007-07-30 12:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by HJG 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your scarred you should contact the police and get a restraining order.
2007-07-30 12:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah I'd try a restraining order too
2007-07-30 12:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Chief High Commander, UAN 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats a goood one try a restraining order.
2007-07-30 12:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Joshua W 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i can`t read your past question since your questions and answers are private
2007-07-30 12:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋