this guy i met 2 yrs. ago and i liked him ever since. then this year he kissed me and we hung out, kissed, and cuddled all night then a week later he got back together with his gf and said he was always in love with her but then y did he break up with her and kiss me and then get back together with her?? plz help me i don't know what to do? i'm a wreck but i can't let anyone know cuz then they'll b mad @ him and won't want me 2 talk 2 him but him and i e-mail back and forth. plz help me i don't know what to do!!??!!!
2007-07-30 05:21:48 · 8 answers · asked by swimfan114 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not fully gotten over his ex now again gf. Its going to be a vicious cycle. If you feel you can deal with not having him like that, but keep him as a friend then go with that, however this will be a challenge in the emotional front for you. You may need to pull away so those feelings for him pass, allowing you to again be friends with him, while you find yourself a nice single non-emotionally attached to his ex-girlfriend guy.
Otherwise you're just setting yourself up for alot of pain and emotional roller coasters.
2007-07-30 05:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by thru9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about this guy thought i know its difficult but you have to or else you r the one getting hurt all the time. What's the use of a guy who doesnt appreciat your love and love another, m sure you are worth alot. Take your time there'll be someone waiting for you and who will appreciate every minute and second of your love. Jus be patient, dear.
2007-07-30 12:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what happened.
Your guy friend never got over his girl friend. He really is in love with her. However, it seems like the girl broke the relationship for some reason and the guy was crushed. He needed a... resort. That's why he chose you and went out with you because he needed someone to care for him. Basically he used to get over his feelings...
If he ever breaks up with her, he'll come back crawling to you. However, I suggest you kick him aside and go for someone that's really going to love you. :D
2007-07-30 12:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by dl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him be happy in the relationship he's in now. Go find a single guy.
2007-07-30 12:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything till he breaks up with his girlfriend. he doesn't sound like a good guy though, sorry. i would just move on.
2007-07-30 12:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playin u sweetie he wants to have his cake and eat it too.. Leave him alone
2007-07-30 12:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a guy that's not taken.
2007-07-30 12:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me to meet you someplace then do more than just kiss...
2007-07-30 12:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by mnencefront 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋