After first date whose turn is it?

Question

I went out on a first date with that guy on Saturday. We spent really nice time together, were kissing, after he walked me to my bus, I sent him a txt about nice time spent together and he replied saying the same thing. Now it is Monday and I havent heard from him yet. Is it my turn to txt him first or shall I wait till he does it. Im not sure who is supposed to do that first move. He is aussie - if it would help.
Thanks.

Answer 1

Well, every person acts differently, he may be waiting for you to text him just to make sure that you had a good time and he wont' be rejected.

But if you do text him, don't seem too paranoid or smothering. Just something casual like " Hey i was just thinking about ya and was wondering if you maybe wanted to grab a cup of coffee or something?"

Keep it casual and relaxed. Good luck ;)

Hope i helped!

Answer 2

Just wait a while. I always think women should let the guy do the running because it shows how keen they are. If you haven't heard by Wednesday write him off. If he texts after that you can ask why he hadn't got in touch sooner and see what he says. If he says hes been busy etc hes no good. If he says he was wondering the same thing about you you can presume he wasn't sure what to do and give him another chance.

Answer 3

Aussies are the nicest people in the world but most of the aussies I know (might be a SWEEPING generalization and probably is) are quite shy. I would say wait until tuesday-wednesday and if he hasn't contacted you, you should contact him. OR you could text him and say "hey stranger, what are you up to" something like the word 'stranger' implies that you think that a convorsation or an exchange of texts is far overdue, he'll probably get the hint and text you more often, BEFORE you text him, hope this helped!

Answer 4

This is the reason so many people are still looking for a date. Why do you care who call first? If you like him, call him. People just like playing those games, why do you need to count days before calling? You think he is not interested, he thinks you are not interested, one of you will move on and meet something else, then another cycle happens, you will always be in a circle.

Answer 5

Send him a text!! If you don't get a response, try again. Then try callin. I mean by what you said, you guys seemed to have a great time on the date. He should get back to you. If he doesn't, then you'll have something new to post and question about. As for right now, send over the texts and get in touch with him!! It doesn't matter who sends first. :-) good luck!

Answer 6

Ooouuu a sexy aussie.. Nice! I don't think there is any rule when it comes to this stuff. If you feel you both had a good time then be the first to text him, I mean.. Why not?! Go for it girl, and good luck :)

Answer 7

Normally I would say who cares and text him... But if you really like him, I suggest you wait it out. Just wait a few days... let him do the chasing in the beginning... at least until the games stop.

Let him come to you.

Answer 8

Maybe just text him saying something like 'What's up?' or 'Hey what're you doing?'. He may be busy. Try setting up another date with him.But don't try to be too clingy, If you've texted/called/e-mailed him a lot between then and now you should wait a little.

Answer 9

Well I am not supposed to tell you this, but in guy codes it is said it is common to wait 3 days to call a girl back after an event of such but if you want you can call him but you can also wait another day and see how he really feels.

Answer 10

Text if you want to, just go with your gut. If he doesn't respond, write him off and move on to the next one. As long as you're honest about who you are and what you want and expect, you'll do much better in relationships than if you play stupid little games.