This guy i dated from another state, he was nice when we dated which was a year and half ago, he was online one day and mentioned he would be in my town for work, i said let me know when youll be coming. He didnt let me know just called 3 months later leaving a message saying hes in town. I was at work, when i called he wasnt too friendly, he said he was at the hotel and that his friend is having a party in brooklyn-which is far from me, i said thats pretty far- he didnt offer a ride,,I just said well how long will you be here? He said 4 more days, i said well maybe Saturday is good he said yea ill call you, he sounded a little annoyed. He never called and i left a message for him each day he was here-he never called me back.
Did i do something wrong? I felt he may try and use me at the hotel, i didnt like the sound of it..
Whos wrong here?
2007-07-30 04:58:17 · 11 answers · asked by lux s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You fell victim to what is known as 'The Booty Call'.
You know you're a victim when the guy in making the call won't pin down definate plans with you, won't take you out in public, expects you to drop everything to 'hang out' with him, and refused to return your calls afterwards.
Unfortunately, there is no known cure for The Booty Call at this time.
2007-07-30 06:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by larsor4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is in the wrong. Sounds to me he is not such a nice guy. He was trying to use you for hotel. The best thing to do is not to communicate with him anymore. Let him go.
2007-07-30 20:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of path the guy replaced into impolite. i might have in basic terms appeared at him and pronounced "no". not something approximately having controlled to proceed to exist for 60 years in a well-liked society with get right of entry to to top wellness care is so magnificent that it provides a man or woman the applicable to handle youthful human beings like something they only scraped of the soles of their shoes. with the aid of the way, to the human beings who say you will possibly desire to provide up your seat for the elderly: 60 isn't elderly. not in at present's society. 60 isn't even sufficiently old to retire yet. there are a number of 60 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds who nevertheless run marathons. and in spite of the fact that if the guy have been elderly that doesn't absolve him from the accountability to act like a first rate man or woman.
2016-10-13 02:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he was trying to get you to the hotel for some private fun. You did nothing wrong... move on
2007-07-30 05:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He was looking for an easy mark. Don't worry about it. He's not worth the trouble, obviously.
2007-07-30 05:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. He is wrong. You can find a better kind of person to be with.
2007-07-30 05:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. He sounds inconsiderate.
2007-07-30 05:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kabu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's wrong, definitely. You are not a pick up and delivery service.
2007-07-30 05:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one is right or wrong, he just isn't that in to you anymore.
2007-07-30 05:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's preying upon your weaknesses.
2007-07-30 05:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋