I am neither. So how am I supposed to get a girl who loves me?
2007-07-30 04:55:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are not as visually stimulated like men are and you really don't want a golddigger. What really turns women on us confidence. They can smell a confident man from a mile away.
2007-07-30 05:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not true of all women. sure it's definitely a bonus if a guy is good looking, but I don't expect or want a guy who looks like a model... just someone who I'm attracted to, which always is much more than his looks (and if you could see some of the guys I've liked, you would see that they are no where near looking like Brad Pitt or anyone else). A guy could be good looking but have a crappy personality and be a total jerk next to an average looking guy who had a great personality and was good to be around and I'd choose the average looking guy any day. As far as the money goes, my main concern would be that between myself and my guy we made enough to support ourselves and any future children that would be fine.
You just haven't yet met a woman who appreciates the man you are; who looks past things that shouldn't even be important to find out who you really are and love that man. You will though, I'm sure of it. All you can do is be the best that you can be, but strive for what you know is your personal best... don't give up because of one or two failures; if everyone did that we would be lacking so much.
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2007-07-30 12:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, some women are not that shollow. If a person wants you because you are rich or good looking. That person is not a safe person. And more of all, he or she does not care about you. If this girl that you love wants you. And if she trully loves you. she will not look at those two things. Ask her out and tell her how you feel about her. Good luck. remember though a really woman would not be looking at money or looks. she will be looking at things are down the surface like your personality, how caring you are or if you are kind etc. Good luck on this decision.
2007-07-30 12:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proactive. That will make you look better. Then you need to stunt like your rich. I would go to Marshall's and buy all the cheap Polo, Rocawear, and Sean Jean clothes. Women just see name brands. I also know that there are many loney girls who are pretty but may have something wrong with them. Up here we have deaf girls that look like Beyonce or Jessica Simpson. Best of luck.
2007-07-30 12:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't need a lot to land a girl. Brush your hair, shower, and brush your teeth. Those are important. Then be willing to talk and listen. Be funny but not corny. Girls aren't as into money and looks as they are a good conversation and a good man. Good luck!
2007-07-30 12:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy find a girl that is simple and simple to please...I would perfer to hang out at home then to be out getting drunk and spending money that me and my guy would not have at the time...you just need to find someone that wants you for you and not for money or looks...
2007-07-30 11:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy is 232 pounds and 5'4". We're both looking for second jobs to pay the bills. Why do I stay? He made me the center of his world.
2007-07-30 12:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get me wrong there are some woman who perfer the rich men but personally to me I would like a guy that is himself around me and isn't afraid to be himself.. and he has to make me laugh that is a must!!!!!
2007-07-30 13:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Aquarius 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good looking, smart, selfless, with a good heart, strong values and a great sense of humour. I COULDN'T CARE LESS about the money.
2007-07-30 11:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey der ..!!! u r right ..women WANT either gud -lukin or rich guys ...but u din say dey LOVE dem....dat too not all women.!!!!wat u want is sum1 who LOVES u ......!!!!! Not sum1 who WANTS u 4 ur luks or wealth ..!!!! my advice is dont go searching n dating women to find d right gal ........u will kno d rite one wen u meet her ..no 1 will haf 2 tell u ...''der dats d gurl u luv ...!!!''' ...u'll kno it wen u haf found her ...so chill ...God has set a partner for all ...be it rich o poor ....handsum o ugly ....good o bad .......tc ...n liv it d way it cums
2007-07-30 12:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by friendly gal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋