I am so pissed, hurt, aggravated you name it I am it.. LOL
My hubby & his sister got into a fight tonight because for the next 30 days I will be watching my 2 niece's while my mother in law is out of town, I don't mind watching them but I was never really even asked, I was pretty much told, 1 of the nieces lives here with her mom (beth the sister) & the other ones does not live here, I love both of my nieces to death, I really don't mind watching them & NO i will not be payed for it, I guess you could say they kinda expect it because I don't work, So I will have 5 kids here with me for 30 days, NO BIGGIE to me, My hubby works nights & He simply told beth to talk to her daughter about not being loud during the day while he is sleeping, she is only 7 & I am sure we will have to remind her a few times hey tone it down a little or you are going to wake up uncle Anthony, I'm really not that worried about it, but my hubby is he is a truck driver... & he is a little worried about it anyway the stupid B-I says my kid is not like yours, Your kids are worse. she was saying her kid is better than ours with my kids right there listening to her, She goes up stairs & slams the door as loud as she can & wakes up my daughter, & I went up there to talk to my daughter who is 12 by the way & she asked what was going on, & I said nothing don't worry about it, & then my daughter tells me that she heard Beth say F*** Racheal & her kids its not like her kids do anything around here, OH HELL NO, its one thing to say it, but she knew damn well she woke up Caltyn, & she would here it, I was NOT even in their argument, I always stay out of their arguments, Why the hell is she cussing me out ??? My kids do enough around here, & quite honestly I do not see it as any of her business as to what they do & do not do, MY kids are not perfect but Neither is hers I would NEVER say something like that to her or her kid, Her daughter was mad because beth was not paying attention to her one time & to get it she said hey mom F*** off What did the stupid B I do NOTHING... I was sitting right there & she did nothing, Her daughter who I love to death is a hateful little *****, Who likes to rub it in people's faces what she has & other kids don't, Just like her mom, Nothing is said about it, cause beth (aka B I) sees nothing wrong with it ask her she will tell you even... But I would never say my kids are better than hers DEF not infront of her kid... The kids did not even know what was going on & I had no clue how to explainit to them, She even made a comment walking up the stairs to them about Lexi being better than them, F*** HER, I called her sis whom she was on the phone with while this was all going on & asked her if she did say what my daughter had said she said I do believe my daughter, but wanted an adult to confirm it & all she said is she is staying out of it & she is getting off the phone Even though everytime she calls me to vent about the same person I sit there & listen & try to give her advice, But NOOOO I need someone to talk to & she don't care Screw her as well, I am doing them both a favor they would never do for me.. I have been with their brother for 10 years & not once have they ever watched my kids I have always watched theirs I even kept Lexi for 2 years while her mom was at work.. I am not the person who likes confrontation, But I refuse to talk to her anymore period.... She is a hateful person, & right now all I want to do is freaking cry, I have never done anything to her but be nice & do everything to help her out in every-way i can & She is going to sit there & say all that crap about me right in front of my daughter, AGHHHHHH.. I am so tempted to tell her tomorrow morning find someone else to watch your kid, Because quite honestly if she really thinks her kid is better than mine than, & she is going to say F*** racheal she dont do anything around here anyway, She can kiss my A** & I dont want my kids around her, & I will show her just how much I dont do around here, She can do her own dishes, she can clean up after her daughter, she can cook her daughters meals for the next month Sorry I am just really upset right now... Am I wrong to be
2007-07-29 18:49:31 · 8 answers · asked by bite_me_harder_28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have ever right to be angry with this Beth person. I mean, you're right! Who is she to say that when Beth knew she woke up your daughter? That's just plain wrong. 12 year olds (I am 13) know what's going on and when someone says something like that, they WILL hold a grudge. I mean, she probably woke up by the yelling and heard the argument. And then for Beth to say "F*** Racheal & her kids its not like her kids do anything around here" is just plain stupid. I mean, it's not like the kids don't understand it!
You have ever right to be angry Racheal. If I were you, and thankfully you're not me, I would've probably hit this Beth person.
I hope you feel better soon Racheal, I'm also glad you handled the situation well.
Tootles! ♥
2007-07-29 19:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not wrong to be upset...
But, in your anger and hurt, don't let the "sins of the mother" fall upon her kids - the kids learn what they learn from their Mom - but you changing who you are or the way you treat the kids - or anyone - is only going to hurt yourself...and you know as well as I do (and I don't even know you) that you would regret changing who you are and how you treat others as a knee-jerk reaction to something someone else said or did.
You have nothing to prove - and they know it, otherwise you wouldn't keep getting called on to watch other's kids...
Have that cry you want to - have a smoke of you smoke...and go back to being yourself...you owe yourself, your husband, and your kids that.
2007-07-29 18:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, interesting question. Mathew would punch a wall or something to the extent where he breaks a bone... then realise that it probably wasn't the smartest idea. Dani would run for ages until she couldn't anymore (which would be a long time, lol). Jade would make herself puke (she has bulimia). BQ - Um... I don't know... Maybe someone from The Maze Runner. I really don't know, lol. BQ2 - No, I agree with you. It's completely pointless, but I just don't care. Just because they say it, it doesn't mean I have to listen. xx :) xx
2016-05-17 09:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by adelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be mad. I would be!
You really should consider the whole babysitting arrangement. Yes, you love your nieces but I don't know about you but I do favors for people who respect me and deserve them. If you do decide to stop watching them, you should give a week notice for them to find someone else.
The decision is yours but you really need to stand up for yourself! Be strong, woman.
2007-07-29 20:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bleak 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong to be mad!!!!!! She is way out of line.
Stop being a doormat. Stand up for yourself. If you have trouble standing up for yourself, then stand up for your kids. When I have trouble with confrontations with my sisters about my son, I just think about him. I think; what am I telling him if I don't stand up for him? And then I do what needs to be done. End of story.
2007-07-29 19:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you feel better. Family drama's suck, but you really have to remember that how you handle things is what your kids are going to learn. Do you want them to think this is the way to cope? Next time, laugh her off, don't let her have that much power over you.
2007-07-29 19:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
woah this is a novel
write a book
2007-07-29 19:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by ☆Dj Danger☆ 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you talk too goddam much i lost you in the first three sentences.
2007-07-29 18:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋