ok. so my parents are divorced. they are both remaried and i have a 2 step brothers, 4 real brothers, 1 step sister, and 1 real sister. Both of my sister live with my dad. So do all of my brother except for one, a real one. Me and him live with my mom. My dad and his new wife are on vacation and didnt want to take the kids with them so they are stayign with us, i have no promblem with that. Well anyways the second day into them staying my oldest step brother who is 15, a little more than a year loder than me, who i met only once, was the only one home other than me. He invited some of his friends over, and as i was gettign changed, my bedroom has a balcony, i had my top over my head and i heard a noise so i turned towad my balcony doors and saw my step brother and about 7 of his friends watching me change. I didnt know what to do so I ran to my bathroom. Wh at should I do? How should I act around him? Help!! Plz.
2007-07-29 18:45:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your parents. Boys are immature at that age and try to get away with things like that but eventually you guys will get to know each other better and it wont be so cool to him that he saw you naked! Right now he just thinks he has a cute new step sister. Tell your parents and let them handle it.
2007-07-29 18:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to be sure that you tell your mother and her new husband. Please do this. Then, be sure that you close the blinds before dressing, or dress where you cannot be seen from the window (in the bathroom, closet, behind a screen). I think you should also have a lock on your door and lock it when you go in your room. You did not mention how old Jake is, but if he is old enough to be left at home without supervision, and old enough that he and his friends are interested in watching you undress, this is seriously inappropriate behavior. Your parents need to take some action to ensure that Jake does not try this again.
2016-04-01 09:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello jessie,what a lovely name! this was my mothers name also.now you have to tell your mother and if she does not listen tell a teacher that you trust asap about this boy and his so called mates.this was an illegal act and he and the others can be charged for being peeping toms.he has to be made accountable for his actions, and if this is not done he may think he can get away with this sort of disgusting behavior which could lead him to do something more serious later in his life.be aware of your surroundings and keep your balcony doors shut and any windows shut while you are showering or changing and in no way think it was your fault.he is the peeping tom not you.i hope this has helped you to decide what you have to do.best of luck to you jessie love chen.xxxxx
2007-07-29 19:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by cheneece13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you believe in closing your door or your blinds? Any boy is going to look if you are putting on a show. Hasn't your mom told you about that? Keep the door closed and locked when you are getting dressed. If you feel threatened in any way, keep that door locked, but also tell your mom. You should NEVER feel threatened in your own home. It should be a place of safety.
2007-07-29 18:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Marissa M 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell both your mom and your dad, they both should know what's going on. If they don't take action by telling him that it was very inappropriate and punishing him, then you need to tell another adult, preferably a teacher. This was illegal and you need protection.
2007-07-29 19:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom or dad asap. just try to avoid him and not talk to him and if you have blinds on the balcony door the close them.
2007-07-29 19:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by DanceGrrlXoXo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents when they get back, or even call them if you want to. It's very innapropriate and you are right to be worried. I don't know if you should take it up with him or not, maybe call your mother and tell her.
2007-07-29 18:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by SmEllY! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Father or Mother,, at age 15 ill kick him where it hurts if i was a girl...yup
2007-07-29 20:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slap him and tell him, if he can't get girls not related to him, he might as well go to an internet website, and show him to a computer with a internet dating service on it with some fat chick.
2007-07-29 18:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by ©-мαŧıžźŁє 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make sure the doors and windows are closed.
2007-07-29 18:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by tabitoe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋