so i think im kinda a bad kid i mean like u have to ask me things over and over i mean i try i really trry but i think im just bad. i asked this question before is my mom rite for treating me this way? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak6yTf5NigevOGoqbDkcSFvsy6IX?qid=20070729190623AAQZd9d
2007-07-29 15:37:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak6yTf5NigevOGoqbDkcSFvsy6IX?qid=20070729190623AAQZd9d thats what she does to me <<<<
2007-07-29 15:48:30 · update #1
No you are not a bad kid.sounds truly like your mom has a problem.
2007-07-29 15:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Beckles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I'm impressed with all you've done and are doing. If some idiot calls you a bad mom they're just dumping on you, trying to make you feel bad because they're jerks. Let it slide off you if you possibly can. YOU know you're doing a good job to be this young with all this responsibility and supporting yourself and your children. I don't know what you mean when you say you had a baby out of birth control. Did you not have any birth control at the time? Or - were you on birth control that failed? If you didn't have any available then you need to get to the nearest pharmacy and buy a case of condoms. Or go to an OBGYN and get those little arm implants, an IUD, or whatever is the best one for you in your situation. Because sweetheart, if you are pregnant again, 3 kids that young is a huge challenge. I know you can handle it and you will but each child needs individual attention from mommy and more than 3 won't get it. Best wishes to you and your sweet children and make sure you take care of yourself first because if you're not in top shape you won't be that much good for them. They needs lots of individual mommy love but I'm sure you'll work that out too.
2016-05-17 08:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what kinda of situation you are in. But I can give my advice as a mother. Your mother loves you with all her heart. Things might seem bad now but there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. I went through this stuff when I was like 15-18. I felt like my mom didn't care about me either. I felt like I couldn't do any thing right or any thing that will make her happy. Just try this go to your mom and tell her you love her. You will be really surprised at her reaction. Good luck my prayers are with you.
2007-07-29 15:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by dreamer20692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably yell at you or take things away from you if i were your mom. It depends on what you do. You need to explain the question more. What kind of things does she ask you to do??? And how does she ask you? If she's yelling then I wouldn't do it., but if she asks nicely and it's reasonable than you need to do it even if you don't like it. I don't think you are a bad kid, but maybe you just need to help your mom out without being asked first. You could try to suprise her by cleaning the house before she comes home, preferablly before she gets her 2 days off so that weekend/weekdays can run smoothly.
2007-07-29 15:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jenel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only as bad as you want to be! You say that you try really hard then well your going to have to keep trying. It looks as though your mom is pleased with you. Nah you don't deserve it! but she doesn't buy them for you because you deserve it she buys it because she loves you very much, and she only wants to make you happy. You seem sweet enough keep trying. The best thing that you can do is start chores before you are asked to do them. If you know that it is your night to do the dishes then just go do them don't wait until she has asked you ten times. That will make your ma very happy
2007-07-29 15:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by in His image 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as a bad kid, just sometimes kids behave badly!
Having read your other thread/question it seems that you are trying your best.
Maybe your mother is going through a bad patch and taking it out on you?
Can you talk to Granma about it?
Just as kids can behave badly, so can mothers.
Remember, keep on loving your mother - it is her behaviour/how she is treating you that you dislike sometimes.
2007-07-29 15:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tarkarri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a bad kid. Your being mentally abusived. What does your granma say? It would be a good idea if you were to go talk to the school councellor or your teacher and tell them what is going on. Your a child and do not have to deal with this by yourself
2007-07-29 15:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked if your mom is right in treating you this way but you didn't say how she was treating you????
If your mom tells you to do something, just listen the first time so you don't get in trouble. That makes it so much easier.
2007-07-29 15:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no kid is bad they just need a little extra help and u have to put your mind into being good...please try for yuours mothers sake
2007-07-29 15:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow u r bad...w/e anyone says u r bad
2007-07-29 18:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋