How long should an slightly older woman wait before going all the way with a new boyfriend, without losing his respect?
2007-07-29 12:47:57 · 18 answers · asked by DONNA W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know why I am trying to answer this.. but here goes... you can go one or two ways.... be yourself, act your age and do it whenever you feel like it... and risk the chance of losing him because he may think you are too easy... but there is a slight chance he is old enough emotionally to understand that you are an older woman who has needs just like him.. Or you can play the game of waiting around a month or after ten or twelve dates hoping he will still respect you after the deed is done... none the less.. I think if a guy is for you it doesn't really matter how long you wait.. If you are really in his heart he wont dump you for doing something you both already wanted to do anyway. ..
2007-07-29 12:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-07 17:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't play games. What I mean by that is most men will call you when he plans on it. It's not a test. If you are truly interested in him and you can sense this relationship is something you want and he doesn't call you back you should go for it though and contact him. Life is too short to wait around go for it and live life. As for what is considered too fast on a date I'd say kissing and holding hands are on different levels of intimacy. Holding hands are a great start if your going to a movie or something while a kiss is good ending of a date.
2016-05-17 07:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person who answered above me .....no sex ual intercourse till you are married is giving you the best advice .......best for him too. ( that is your bf)
your relationship will grow if sex is not the goal of it ....if sex is the end all off you togetherness and there is no commiment ......guess what? your relationship will most likely
fizzle and you will both go after someone new ......yet you will have torn each other apart in the process ..
you will have pain and emptiness .....
as your final destination.... but sure go ahead lower your standards to join the rest of kids sliding down the slippery slope of personal degradation ....hey ask people on yahoo to give you an answer about your own most intimate nature .....
do you not have the heart to think for yourself .? please .
get a clue . what if you get pregnant as a result ????
what if you just accidentally got aids ?
count the cost and the product you are gettin.....
its a bad deal . You will lose with a decision to go for it .
2007-07-29 13:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by ob13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the person. I'd wait a few more weeks anyway. just to be safe. Everybody is a little different and needs different time lines to adjust. Sex is way too casual these days and it shouldn't be. Do what feels right for both of you. If you are both feeling it then go ahead. If you're not sure then hold off until you are.
2007-07-29 12:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make him wait 6 weeks, or 18 dates.
2007-07-29 12:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you guys get busy only after a couple of weeks, that's considered too fast.
2007-07-29 12:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
at least a couple of months if not longer. if he is worth sleeping with he will wait. and if you have to ask this question then you need to wait longer.
2007-07-29 12:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by brianswife 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it totally depends on how you both feel together...he could be thinking the same thing...ask him if he wants to come in after a date and it might fly from there.
2007-07-29 12:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by ~LakersGirl~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it all depends on the situation and the people involved. I think....whenever it feels right, that's when you should go for it. Whether it's been one date or five.....
2007-07-29 12:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by tappetytap 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋