2007-07-29 12:28:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have read most of the answers and everyone is showing a little harshness as you must a kid asking this question.
The fact is that unless you are a gynecologist you cannot tell. She may be lying and she may not be.
However, if you cannot trust her in that area then you probably should not be involved with her.
2007-07-29 12:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by spencer4571 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? You're an idiot. She owes you nothing! No proof......nothing. You don't deserve to even call yourself her boyfriend. Shame on you for even putting that out there for discussion. Who are you to dictate that you need proof of someone's virginity? You don't sound like you can be trusted. Move on......put an ad in the paper..."Virgin Only" "Must Provide Proof".......and leave the poor girl alone.
2007-07-29 19:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rick F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who the hell cares. Unless she's the village bicycle just forget about it. But there is a seal on the jar, which may or may not be broken shall we say. Have a feel around, it's the only way to know for sure. Although I think it can be broken by other means.
2007-07-29 19:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to be rude, but it really isn't your business if she is a virgin or not.
If she wants to tell you then she will when the time comes. Until then, I think it would be in your best interest to find more interest in your own life.
2007-07-29 19:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by lala2007 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ya cant...u have 2 take her word 4 it...why does she have 2 b a virgin?! i guess if u dont trust her u should leave her alone and find another person......
2007-07-29 19:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by *Fluorescent Adolescent* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't believe her about this, how can you believe her about anything? A relationship needs to be built on trust or it will not last long. if you need to find out, then you are not worth her time.
2007-07-29 19:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by Patsy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept that she provides TMI--too much information.
It is really none of your business, and I'd suggest you decide not to care about it one way or the other.
Unless you participate in some twisted kind of meat market where you pay several hundred thousand for virgins . . . . but then she gets to verify your bank account, huh?
2007-07-29 19:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no real way of finding out. You do however have to have trust in your relationship otherwise it's not going to work out.
2007-07-29 19:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by PETEPUMA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not something most girls lie about, and besides if you're with her long enough and the time is right. You'll find out anyways. Just remember to take it sloooow :oP
2007-07-29 19:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she's still got her hymen you know for sure
but it can be lost other ways than sex
just trust her, even if she isn't a virgin it's not that big of a deal
2007-07-29 19:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋