my x bf is tring is trying to get me jelous and what do i do?
2007-07-29 12:05:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes flirting with my bff and then calling me and inviting me to go places with him
2007-07-29 12:08:33 · update #1
hes flirting with my bff then calling me and asking me to go places or he makes me feel bad and im worried cause i dont want my bff to get hurt
2007-07-29 12:11:03 · update #2
Laugh about it. Nothing can burn an antagonist better than to think their aggressions are entertaining.
2007-07-29 12:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This girl can't be your bff because if she were, she'd tell your ex-boyfriend where to go.
When your ex calls you, you tell him that's it's over between the two of you and you've moved on. Tell him you'd appreciate him not calling you any more. Tell him this only once and then stop entertaining his pettiness.
Don't worry about your so-called bff getting hurt. Obviously, she's not concerned about your feelings.
You may just have to sever your ties with your bff too. Let the two of them have each other. They seem like they will be perfect for one another. He's an immature prat and she's a back-stabbing hoochie.
2007-08-05 06:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When someone is trying to make you jealous, it is because they WANT a reaction out of you. If you react they are happy and satisfied. The best way to stop the behavior is to ignore it completely. In fact you can do even better than that. I'm not sure what he/she wants you to be jealous about, but when you are around them not only do you ignore everything, but also laugh, and have fun and act happy and carefree about it all like you have no cares in the world. That is the best solution. Then your bf will be jealous that your so strong and non jealous. :)
2007-07-29 19:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by smart S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices ...
Ignore him .. with no attention coming in he will quit.
Or play his game ... find some one cute'r, possibly a friend of his and go out with them too ... act like your having the time of your life and accidently run into him ...
then move on without the boyfriend because if he is doing this to you now he will do it again and go further and further each time.
2007-08-06 15:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by dena a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you bbf should not have feeling for him anyway. You need to tell her to back off and if she doesn't and she gets hurt in the cross fire, OH WELL. She should now the rule about messing w/ your friends left overs.
2007-08-06 18:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and whenever you see him, act like your having a great time. It will annoy the crap out of him while letting him know that you've moved on and he eventually will too.
2007-07-29 19:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lyric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your bff should not let that happen. noth of you are in this together.. don't let him hurt you.. just pretend to move on even if it hurts inside. maybe it will fade away.
2007-08-06 19:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell em when its only u 2, that u know he;s tryna make u jealous. but say it in a flirtatious way so he'll back off. cuz if u sound mad he'll know that he got 2 u
2007-08-06 14:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by sravya v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games, just be yourself and ignore his actions. If he dates your best friend, consider dumping them both.
2007-08-06 17:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him, or if you still have feelings for him just tell him to stop playing and get back together
2007-07-29 19:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋