my bf wants to know everything about my past and slowly ive told him everything and it was very hard but now he says he cant trust me because im lying to him and that i havent told him everything but i have and im just so frustrated cause ive told him everything what more does he want he says he knows im lying but im not! and it drives me crazy i just dont know what to do anymore should i lie to him and make something up so he'll shut up or should i just leave him? plz help :(
2007-07-29 10:53:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, why should you lie?
he is a control freak and you are best to get out before he screws u up totally.
Its none of his business what your past is so tell him to drop it or he will be dropped!
2007-07-29 10:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by angi zefi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has a reason not to believe you. Do you have common friends? Does any of them would've told him some thing about you (even if lie) and he wants to hear it from you? Does he trust all people normally, or he's naturally suspecious? How about his past? Maybe he had a horrible one, that makes him acting so.. Why don't you get more closed to him, and perhaps you answer these questions yourself..
Don't just give up every person who doesn't follow your rules of living, maybe he needs you in a time you never thought he does!
2007-07-29 18:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by Reham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place you should never tell anyone including a bf about your past. The past is the past and it should be left alone. He could go tell others what you have said now just to hurt you more. Don't lie to him and DO NOT tell him anything anymore except to hit the street since he doesn't believe you anyway. Sounds like he never will either and you don't deserve that kind of treatment from anyone. PLEASE LEAVE HIM!!!!
2007-07-29 18:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by insane one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie - that won't engender trust.
It is probably the fact that you weren't up front at the start, that makes him question you now. Take him and say, directly to his face, "I have told you everything. I don't expect you to continue treating me as if I haven't. You have to decide now, whether you will accept that, or we are over."
And be prepared for the chance that his answer will be "I can't". In that case move on. But you are better off without someone than with someone who doesn't believe in you.
2007-07-29 18:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your boyfriend. Part of being a boyfriend is trusting your girlfriend. A relationship is nothing without trust. Sit him down and explain that you have told him everything and that you are not going to discuss it any more. If he persists, tell him you are going to leave him and why. If he still doesn't stop, walk out.
2007-07-29 18:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeeze, he's being an annoying little brat. Why does he want to know everything anyway? He should be happy that you trusted him enough to tell him in the first place! If he doesn't start believing you, dump him. He's not worth your time.
2007-07-29 17:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what more he wants to know! If he still doesn't believe you, then break up with him, cause there needs to be trust in a relationship.
2007-07-29 17:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen u told him everything,,, then if he thinks your lying wich u know your not excuse me..... DUMP HIS BUTT !!! sounds like he doesn't appreciate you anyway. U can do better than him.
2007-07-29 17:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lie.. you don't want a bad reputation do you??
leave him. he is just insecure with himself that he takes it out on you.. he isn't a good boyfriend. you deserve so much better! =]]
2007-07-29 17:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he says that to you, tell him that he is being rude. I would not put up with such treatment.
2007-07-29 18:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋