There is this guy thats jealous that I have a boyfriend. He wants to cut my boyfriend's throat open and he says he will. He also says he will come over to my house and no one will ever see me again and I will be missing and dead. And lately he's been calling me from different numbers so I will answer the phone. I have been hearing things and I hear knocking on the door and no one's there. People keep stealing stuff from my mom's car. I am always home alone too. I am stressing over this so much I am afraid to sleep and my stomach hurts because I am so stressed. Don't I have a right to be scared?
2007-07-29 09:26:55 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs.... What If? 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
If you could be real sneaky, and get him on tape saying this, especially over the phone..you could have him arrested for using the telephone for making a terrorist threat to you...of course you should be afraid...I would call the police, and ask them if I could tape him somehow, so you won't get in trouble..this man is dangerous...any time someone threatens you, and you have proof....you could have him arrested..for him to try to intimidate you also, is also domestic violence...call the police and do NOT 'forget about it" at this point, I AM GETTING SCARED FOR YOU
2007-07-29 09:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have the right to be scared!
Call the police and change your number. If you don't already, get an alam security system so that if a window or door opens or if there's a loud noise,which would be good for a break-in,the company will be notified and will call to see if you're all right. If you don't pick up the phone then they call the police. Advise your boyfriend too i he lives in a different house than you.
2007-07-29 16:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by FML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! No one can guess how serious he is about his threats. Call the police to make a formal report. If you can, get a recorder that can record your conversations if it is legal in your state for one party to record the conversation without the other's knowledge. I had to do it. I also got a security camera at Wal-Mart for approximately $40.00. I place the camera in my window sill andI pointed the camera out (it has night vision) I could also view live action. It made me feel safer to see that I was, or was not, in dangerI at the moment. I hooked it up to a TV/VCR, recorded what happened 24 hr./day (i used 8 hr. tapes that I had to review each day until the culprit was caught on video tape.
Harrasment and stalking are crimes. Talk to the police department.
I suggest that you call a Women's Center that deals with domestic abuse. They can guide you better than I can. They helped me see what abuse is, the signs of an abusive partner, and what to do the feel safe.
God bless you and good luck to you.
2007-07-29 16:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by terry p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, You deffinatly have the right to be scared.
This guy sounds like a loonatic.
Call the police and ask them to come to your house.
If they fail to do so or they are busy - Go to the station, because they have to see you if you're there
( You may need to wait a while to be seen to though )
He could also be sent down for burglary and harassment.
Maybe you could try talking to him - BUT only if it is safe to do so, don't put yourself or family or boyfriend in any dangerous or unsafe situation.
Good Luck, Hope this loonatic gets locked up.
2007-07-29 16:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by SB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definetly, I think you sshould talk to your local police about this guy sounds dangerous, plus it's illegal to make threats like that, be careful make sure the door and windows are locked at night and be really really carefful when you go out at night, oh and peeper sray might not be a bad idea. I'm not saying let this guy keep you from doing things just be careful, and good luck with this.
2007-07-29 16:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by monkeyqueen992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a psycho. Call the police, get a restraining order on him. If you are truly scared to be home alone, find friends or family to either stay with you, or go over to their places. I would say it's a pretty scary situation, and this guy has violated you mentally, that's not okay.
2007-07-29 16:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops and tell them that both u and ur bf need police protect a restraining order and would like to press charges against ur ex for the following: harassment, stalking, and threatening to kill and kidnap and possible theft. he could be put away and be put into a mental institution u'll probably never end up seeing him again unless u want to visit him or wen ur in court. =) hope this helps u need to do it before someone gets hurt
2007-07-29 17:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by just ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should b concerned i would call the police then try to find somewhere else to stay if u can...try to be as informative with the police as u can..also ask neighbors to look out for suspicious behavior..u never know what ppl will do these days keep safe and good luck
2007-07-29 16:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have the right to be scared! This guy sounds like a psycho, and you should notify the police (and your mom) immediately.
Good luck and stay safe!
-Cecilia
2007-07-29 16:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops ............ quick. And of course you have the right to be scraed. I would be.
2007-07-29 16:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋