bullied????

Question

theres this girl and some of her m8 who always call me...i duno if its classed as bullying but it really hurts my feelings.
*when i go past um sumtimes they try to trip me up or say u cant *** through this door then have a go at me after for pushing past um
*they call me a ***** and a **** then say o i h8 er wen i walk past......i havent even done anything i dont think once i had a fight with one of them but it was years ago..she started it

i have told my mum and she said she wil go into skl or ring if it carrys on when we go bac in 5 week....but i think it wil make it worse...i sumtimes see her round were i live

what should i do it makes me sad and cry

they do it to some other people but not as often i dont think....

also one of her friends hates me because i went out with a lad she liked (how was i soposed to no she liked im i didnt talk to her much)....and they make up rumors saying iv being doing stuff (stuff that would make me sound like a ****)

Answer 1

you should report this to a teacher, or the head of the school.

Answer 2

Unfortunately, this happens Everywhere! I had a problem like this when I was in high school. There was a girl who didn't like me and to this day I'm still not sure why (this was at least 11 years ago). She tried to fight me one day and I was terrified! I guess I was fed up and I just gave her my best smile and tried to walk away. She tried to push me down the stairs! Luckily for me I was expecting something like this so I was holding onto the rail. I finally turned around and had my fist in the air ready to fight. A teacher walked by and stopped it so it ended right there. From that point on I didnt avoid them anymore and eventually they left me alone. I am not saying that you should fight them! I will say that if you can find it in yourself to stop showing fear and don't go too far out of your way to avoid them; people like that feed off of weakness. I'm not saying you are weak, nobody likes to be treated this way. I can imagine that you are strong whether you know it or not and sometimes you just have to pretend like you don't care. Next time

Answer 3

As someone who has been bullied, don't give them the time of day. Make some friends or find your friends. Focus on other activities. Don't make eye contact with them. Ignore them. Or you could say, Enough loudly to them. Beat them to the punch. Steal their thunder. Watch where you walk so they aren't able to trip you. Walk away from them. If it means turning around, pretend you forgot something. Ignore them. I know it hurts. But do not let them see you upset. Just be strong and remember that you have done nothing to deserve their wrath. They are immature little monsters. Someday they will get what they deserve for such behavior.

Answer 4

This does need to be sorted I would get your mum to go into the school with you and book a appointment with your head of year or headteacher and tell them what they do and how they make you feel. I was bullied so badly i didnt wanna go to school i dont wanna see this happen to anyone else in the end i went to see the headteacher and it got sorted she left me alone she picked on someone else but got suspened from the school. This girl used to do all the stuff shes doing to you but she made up rumours i hit her with an umberella or a hose pipe and beat her up thats why i didnt go to school because she made me ill my advise is talk to your mum and say you want a appointment and if it dont get sorted then your take it higher up the board !! Trust me every school is scared if you say your take it to the governears or someone like that

Answer 5

If you manage to live through this, in the end the likes of her will be spending their lives working for the likes of you. Keep believing! On the internet, look for positive things! Quotes! Inspiration! Read something inspiring, Motivational, every day before you go out. If you look positive and tough, they will wonder what changed, and they will hesitate. Say a cheerful hello and move on. Don't Tell why you're feeling upbeat! Let them worry. "Living well is the best revenge."

Answer 6

Yes. This is bullying. You should be able to enjoy your life free from this kind of fear. If you know where she lives and you have someone who is good on the computer, send her a solicitors letter saying that an injunction will be issued against her if she causes further harassment. Keep it short and make it look official. How about H. J. Hacket Winslow Passmore Associates. etc! Put it in a good quality brown envelope.

Answer 7

That is a hard one. There is not much that you can do to fix it. Try talking to the girl by yourself. Ask her why are you being mean to me. I don't know what I did to cause you to be this way but your sorry and you'd like to be friends. Sorry to hear you are going through this. Speaking as a former bully, the girl is doing this because she likes the drama and feeling of power she gets from it. Take the power away.

Answer 8

the reason this girl does this is that she is jealous of you or theres something about herself that she doesnt like so to take away from anyone noticing it she picks on someone else-go to your teacher principal or something u shouldnt have to live like this keep ur head up and try not to cry and get upset about this. This girl has major issues within herself could be something physical, or something going on at home thats making her act in such a way. Its going to be ok

Answer 9

Yea you are being bullied and you need to tell a teacher on these cowards.. It wont make thing worse and they will never do it again..... Or if you have a uncle or older brother to scare the SH*t out of them and warn them to leave you alone..... It happened to me and my brother in-law chased this guy down the town and told him he would hurt him if he even looked at me again..... Problem solved

Best of Luck

Answer 10

The way to beat up a bully is to stand up to them,they dont know what to do.
The other day i saw a man who bullied me at school many years ago,i will never forget him.But he knew who i was and he looked scared of me which felt good to me even know.
He knows i could wipe the floor with him know and he remembers what he did.
Dont let ya mum do anything it will make things worse,get you and ya mates to stand up to her and she will back down.
Dont worry about it most people get bullied and it all blows over and the bully gets bored.

Answer 11

if you show that your upset that will only encourage them .What you need to do and i know its easier said than done but ..when they do things like that you just need to be tough and just push through them saying something like f--k u. and walk though.When they call you names or try and trip you up just look at them like they are pigs and keep walking.Don't show that you are upset. of course i know that its hard but that will stop it not immediately but after a while acting like that it will.When they see your not reacting its not fun for them anymore. good luck I hope you can do it.