horrible/weird dream about school?

Question

yesterday, i dreamed that i was back in school. i recognised it but it looked really different, as if someone rearranged it.
i had just finished my P.E. lesson and me and my friends went to the changing room to get changed back into our uniform. but then i noticed that there was a window on the wall opposite from where i was standing.
the bad thing is that a second or so later, i saw someone looking in from the window - it was this boy in my other classes, but i had a bad experience with him once and then i felt really scared. i told my friends but they told me not to look at him. i couldn't help but stare back at him.
then the P.E. teacher came in and told us to hurry up coz she needs to teach the next class. then i took my coat and got changed behind that, but i could still see him staring at me. he seemed to be fixed upon me.
what does this mean?

serious answers only, please. thanks x

Answer 1

It means that your bad experience with him has affected you more that you thought. Your subconscious is expressing your fear and that you don't feel safe, that you feel vulnerable or exposed (expressed by the window and the changing clothes/being undressed) to further "bad experiences" with him/what he represents. It's also saying that you felt you couldn't count on the adults in your life to help, because the P.E. teacher comes in & out & notices/does nothing. Has there been an event in your life recently that made you feel vulnerable and unsafe? Your dream life may have brought this up as a way to tell you it's affecting you more than you'd like to admit, and that you have to deal with it this time. Good luck, sweetie.

Answer 2

As many others have said unresolved conflict with this boy in the past.

Why have you had the dream now is probably the answer you require!

Not knowing what happened between you and this boy I will have to make some assumptions.

I am guessing that his attentions were unwanted at some point, but in an aggressive manner he pursued the matter further, which caused fear and anxiety in you. You ignored the matter at the time possibly not telling your teachers (people in authority) and perhaps only telling your trusted friends. The boy was never confronted about his actions at the time and you fear that he is free to go through his life causing fear by his actions.

Possibly you feel slightly guilty that he 'got away with it' whatever he did or that nobody came to your aid in this matter and so you feel he still has power to do as he pleases!

Why dream of this now, perhaps he lives in the same town or you've recently contacted people who could know him, or you merely went somewhere connected with your schooldays or the event.

I would suggest that your sub-concious is telling you to avoid meeting him or anything connected to him, If you are able in your mind resolve to confront him about his actions and take that power away from him, unless he is a really bad person then avoid him until such time as you feel strong, safe and confident to tackle him if need be. Emphasis on safe.

In life we will meet bad people, it's their problem not yours don't give him power you are stronger than him, as time will show.

Good luck and good dreams

Answer 3

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Answer 4

To dream that you are in school, signifies feelings of inadequacy and childhood insecurities that have never been resolved. It may relate to anxieties about performance and abilities. You may also be going through a "spiritual learning" experience. If you are still in school and dream about school, then it will naturally serve as a backdrop to your dream world. Alternatively, a dream that takes place in school may be a metaphor for the lessons that you are learning from your waking life.
To dream that someone is staring at you, suggests that you are hoping someone would look your way more often. It may also represent anxiety or pride.

Hope this helps a little:)

Answer 5

To see a pervert in your dream, suggests that you are having issues with closeness in some relationship. You are trying to keep your distance and avoid from getting hurt.
You might think that this person is not a pervert because he is the same age as you, (in the dream) but because you are dreaming about him "looking" at you while you are undressing, shows that you never resolved the issues with him when you were back at school, and the problem between the two of you was sexually or if not, that he used to be infuatuated with you or something..? And that the school has changed and then it involves the boy, means the boy has changed, so if your issues were sexually, he is no longer that horrible or if he was in love, he no longer is.
Dont worry - it was just a dream!

Answer 6

Whatever bad thing happened with this boy, it was never properly resolved to your satisfaction, so in a way he's still in your mind.

If you dream about him again, bear in mind that in your dreams he cannot harm you, so you can confront him in the dream, ask he what he wants, ask him why he hurt you, and you can tell him to leave you alone. Remember, he can't hurt you in the dream, it's just the memory and the unresolved emotions and anger about the incident that are bothering you.

Answer 7

Dreams are a reflection of your thoughts. Only you hold the answer to the meaning in your dreams. Keep a journal of both your waking thoughts and your dreams (if you remember them). The motives and themes will make themselves a lot clearer. Dreams almost always consist of the previous day's thoughts.

Answer 8

It sounds like the issue between you and the boy is something that you never resolved. Maybe whatever it was the happened between the two of you is something that you fear will happen in your present life. It sounds as though the past is haunting you.

Answer 9

To dream of a school signifies your feeling of inadequacy with your state of intellect and reflection of your childhood.

If you are still in college it could show your growing aspirations to learn or insecurities about your performance.

To dream about this person you have had bad experiences with could link to some confidence issues you have with yourself, or in a more reflectional aspect.....it could reflect your masculine side (assertive, rational, aggresive and competitive)

Answer 10

I would agree with others but also i belive some dreams are from a higher power. A warning ect.. I would stay away from this person and if he does anything wierd like following you ect.. report him to someone.