so i met this guy last weekend and gave him my email....he added me on msn, we chatted and set up our first date for wednesday...during the date everything seemed to be going well - conversation was flowing, eye contact, smiling, laughter, he paid for the drinks etc & at the end we did the whole cheek kissing thing (am in europe lol) and he called me back for one more since apparently you have to do it 3 times here or something! haha
it is now sunday and i have not heard from him....i know he is busy working and stuff but still...what do you think? should i wait it out some more? should i email him telling him about what a great time i had? or do you think he is simply not interested? :( im really into him and am slightly confused...help!
2007-07-29 05:33:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anon123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably busy, not interested in you, or trying not to look too anxious. (playing the dating game) I would suggest you send him a short message saying hi. Don't blather on about how you are confused that he hasn't called.. just a simple hi.. had a great time.. I hope we can do it again.. kind of message and if he doesn't call or message.. dont go boiling his rabbit.
2007-07-29 18:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you still haven't heard from him by now, you might just send him a short email "just to say hi" and nothing more.
That will let him know you're still interested, but not be too much of a come on or make him think you're desperate, etc.
If he's interested, he'll call you. If not, men are like taxi cabs.. there's another one along every 5 minutes!
Best of Luck to ya!
2007-08-06 02:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 65 years old and I say email him right away! Tell him: "I was just thinking of you, and what a great date we had." Short and simple. If he is interested he will respond. If not, you haven't made a gushy fool of yourself. Don't wait any longer - you don't want somebody else grabbing him up. Never mind what we used to do 'in the old days' - things are different now. Just do it instead of just having fantasies about him. Maybe he thinks he blew the date and is shy. Do it, do it, do it!
2007-08-06 05:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore all the other advice on the dating game and listen(sorry to all others who may type about dating games and such)Simple question simple answer first i'll ask you a question "do you like him?"
Who cares if you break the rules of some dating game or seem too desperate if you like him just call him or email him.Dont let him forget that your still around.
take action and good luck
2007-08-06 03:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things are worth waiting for. Just give him a little more time. No more than a month. This may be a test to see if your desperate. Don't fall for it. Fight the temptation, don't I'M him. Wait for him to call you, and act like you were busy to. Good Luck
2007-08-06 05:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Seductive T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha I wouldn't worry to much. You sound like a great person. I would e-mail him, he may think that your not interested, this is the reason why most people don't end up together! One is afraid to tell the other how they truly feel. So, if you really like him, E-mail him; and tell him about it :) take a chance..
2007-08-06 02:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Brit* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is modern times hitting so definitely give him a call or some textmessage and just arrange a follow-up,some guys just need some encouragement and yes in holland we kiss 3 times on the cheeks but soon after we really KISS....Im sure he is confused himself and girls are just better in these situations really
2007-08-05 23:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u say... it is in europe.... and it so open and kissing has ntg special meaning on it... jz a normal 1...
he might jz dull at there and jz want to have a date ....
u will know whertehr he interested in u o not .... when the time came .... jz wait and see... if he really like u ... he shalll do something and maybe he really busy working... u jz give him space.. and i think u r not a europian rite... and dont make it too open as u might regret .... cause as i say.... it can be meaningless.... (no special meaning in his action... jz wan have fun and relax....)
2007-08-06 05:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well proper you should wait, but i am not sure about this new thing dating in this day and time sometimes rushing it could make matters worse and if you don't coudl do it what do you think? could he be waiting for you since you are in europe?
2007-08-05 16:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously have to wait, you just need to relax and he will be able to come in contact and of coarse hes interested in you other wise he wouldn't have takin you on a date!!! it'll be fine just wait a lil while. guys have there stuff to do and we have ours, in fact if he ain't gonna e-mail you... why don't you just e-mail him
2007-08-06 04:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Bekka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋