I work in a high stress job and use secular forms of meditation practice to help me to alleviate stress and anxiety.
Meditation is simply learning to live in the moment, when nothing distracts you and when you are not tied to the past or anxious about the future. In meditation you become peacefully aware of your real self. The more you use it, the more aware you become. When you learn to live life for each moment, to enjoy and appreciate life to the fullest at that moment, you suddenly become impervious to the myraid of doubts and fears that you've lived with all your life.
While there are many folks that seem to believe their particular mantra has "magical power", it really is the mindfulness that matters. The mantra is just one of the vehicles you can use to get there.
I developed a simple nonsectarian practice, but my background is in Buddhism - specifically Jodo Shinshu (aka Shin) Buddhism, Nichiren Buddhism, and the nonsectarian teachings of the Bright Dawn Institute (aka Kubose Dharma Legacy).
Here is the simple, yet potent, meditation technique that I use with some recommended resources as well. Specific posture does not matter. If you are uncomfortable sitting on the floor, you can sit on a chair with feet flat on the floor.
Since I have medical issues, I do a simple form of secular mindfulness meditation to relieve stress and anxiety. This helps to reduce high blood pressure and the frequency of headaches. It is a practice recommended by my primary licensed physician and is not encumbered by any superstitious nonsense.
I have actually studied a wide variety of religions and paths. Being more musically inclined, I was initially attracted to the practices of Jodo Shinshu (aka Shin Buddhism) and Nichiren Buddhism - with the combination of chanting a rhythmic phrase (Nembutsu or Odaimoku) and/or sutra recitation to a visual object (a scroll of Amida or a Gohonzon). This is a more active form of meditation as compared to the silent form (see below for that). So I decided to create a nonsectarian alternative in that vein. One practice that I find helpful in the vein of the Way of Oneness (the realization of interdependence) is to chant “Be One, Be Peace” in a position of gassho (palms together in front of chest with fingers pointing upward - a traditional gesture of respect) to an object such as a Dharma Wheel or a drawing of enso (a circle - you can paint one on a while sheet of paper with a Chinese style brush - traditionally the circle is not fully enclosed - just do a Google search on enso to see examples) as used in Zen. Five minutes of this every morning before work does wonders for my blood pressure and stress level.
You are more than welcome to use the chant if you think you may find it possibly useful.
I use two forms: “Be One. Be Peace.” for those who prefer a four syllable “mantra” like “Namandabu.” Or “Be One. Be Love. Be Peace.” for those who prefer the pace of a six syllable “mantra” like “Nam(u) Myo-ho Ren-Ge Kyo” or “Na-Mu A-Mi-da Butsu.” People who like (or are drawn) to chant are attracted to the rhythm.
For me, the purpose of any practice is to encourage self-reflection, internalizing this awareness , and wonder/gratitude/awareness of the interdependent forces of the Universe (Dharmakaya - in Shin this is symbolized as Amida Buddha which allows practitioners to perceive these forces as “compassionate” and “caring” thus allowing us to relate to them easier, or as the Gohonzon in Nichiren Buddhism which is a calligraphic representation of the “Ceremony in the Air” from the Lotus Sutra which is also a representation of the interdependent forces of the Universe).
There are a couple of simple techniques for silent meditation as well. You do not have to sit on the floor. You can sit with erect back on a chair. Many people say try for 15 minutes twice a day. I say start with a simpler goal - 5 minutes twice per day. The benefits include stress management and relaxation benefits which help the body, increased mindfulness and focus, and increased energy. The mindfulness can be a benefit to your spiritual life, but meditation also has "non-spiritual" benefits. Here are two easy techniques:
Breathing meditation - 1) Check posture. 2) Close your eyes and relax. 3) Focus on your breath entering and leaving your body. 4) Count breaths mentally one to four. Repeat. 5) Don't fight a wandering mind, but calmly direct it back to task. 6) Sit for a minute afterwards.
"Mantra" technique (choose a personal "calm" word or phrase that you will repeat in your meditation - it can be from your religion or something as simple as "one" or "calm" – I use the nonsectarian “Be One. Be Peace” or “Be One. Be Love. Be Peace.”) - 1) and 2) as above in the Breathing meditation. 3) Listen to your breathing and let it relax you with each breath. 4) Once you are relaxed, mentally "hear" your "calm" word or phrase in your mind. Let it repeat in your mind. 5) Don't fight a wandering mind, but calmly direct it back to task. 6) Sit for a minute afterwards.
That is all there is to these very simple but beneficial meditation techniques. Many people think that something "mystical" should happen during meditation. Most often "nothing" happens and "nothing" should be expected.
Oh yes, and it didn't cost me anything to learn nor were there any "initiations" involved.
Some good resources on "secular" meditation are "The Calm Technique" by Paul Wilson as well as "The Relaxation Response" by Herbert Benson. If you need more formal "assistance" or "training" then I would look into Natural Stress Relief which was founded by former Transcendental Meditation instructors upset at the rising cost and ongoing superstition associated with TM. They charge $47 for their training compared with the $2,500 that TM would charge you.
http://www.naturalstressreliefusa.org/
Also look at these websites on Buddhism on the nonsectarian Bright Dawn teachings which have a heritage of Shin and Zen Buddhism:
http://www.brightdawn.org/
http://www.heartlandsangha.org
I hope these are helpful!
2007-07-29 10:55:44
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answered by David S 4
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Jack Kornfeld has an excellent DVD called Meditation for Beginners on insight meditation. It is about 10 years old, so you should be able to get a deal on a used copy on E-bay or amazon.com. Also, there was an excellent book I read years ago on transcendental meditation called The Transcendental Meditation TM Book : How to Enjoy the Rest of Your Life
by Denise Denniston. This is also available used from amazon.com. Wikipedia has great articles listed under meditation, transcendental meditation and Jack Kornfeld. Good luck in your search!
2007-07-29 12:16:04
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answered by Pangloss (Ancora Imparo) AFA 7
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Simple seated meditation: sitting on a cushion or chair with your spine straight or as straight as you can get it with your legs in a comfortable position. Your hands could be in a mudra (lots of hand mudras you can look up online) or just simply resting on your legs or knees. Focus on your breath at the tip of your nose.
Counting helps at first: starting with 1 2 3 4 5 and then reversing the order. Eyes gently closed. Start with 5 minutes and build up the time you sit. There is a good book by Thich Nhat Hanh about Chants, Meditation and other rituals..........
Another form is yoga which is a moving meditation (some just see it as physical exercise and that's fine but I don't)
Japa Mala: you'd be in the same position as seated but you'd be holding beads and chanting or reciting (aloud or to yourself) different mantras.
You'll get other advice but the big thing is to enjoy it. Blessings
2007-07-29 12:15:05
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answered by Yogini 6
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I work with meditation for the purpose of healing and being grounded.... for an hour a day... either 4x 15 minutes or 2 x 30 minutes.... listening to the sounds of nature.... sit, legs folded , if you have problems you can sit as in a regular chair, eyes closed listening to the sounds of nature... if you are in the wilderness it's a beautiful thing... but if you are in a city where traffic is louder than nature buy a CD or cassette with the sounds of nature ... listen to the sounds ,,, hear only them... That's it no great complications.
2007-07-29 12:19:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Do a google or dogpile search on the word, meditation. You'll find plenty.
2007-07-29 12:09:53
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answered by Jack P 7
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I can't help you with that.
Romans (10)
Acts 2:21
2007-07-29 12:16:12
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answered by robert p 7
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