Until about 6 or 7 years ago, I always wore pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way for work each day, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity for my pantyhose. Right around the time that my wardrobe transitioning to skirt suits and going bare legged with skirts, I was wearing pantyhose for work only on occasion. One one of those occasions that I was wearing them, I just asked him if he was so curious about the hose, why doesnt he just try them. I then hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. Well long story short, he went absolutely ga ga over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat. Hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again, but I dont want things to get out of hand. At the same time, I don't want to deny it to him because of how much he liked it that one time. How can I achieve a balance here?
2007-07-29 05:03:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
as long as hes not doing anything weird with them. Let him try them as much as he wants... he may even get his own.
2007-07-29 07:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Arenajay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No disrespect with my answer here, but I've noticed you've asked this question over and over and over?
Is there an answer you're looking for that you're not getting?
I answered this question at least once or twice in the past...
Are you sure you're not the hubby pretending to be the wife? It just seems weird that a woman would focus this much on something like this?
My point here is, be open and honest and things will work out either way!
I happen to be a guy that has a thing for pantyhose, and I'm married. My wife doesn't mind, and actually encourages me sometimes. She knows I like them and wants to see me happy. They're just an article of clothing, right?
2007-07-30 11:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know my dad wore pantihose when he rode with his motorcycle group on really cold days. It outperformed the thermal underwear for holding in the heat... only problem was that it made it very difficult to go potty... usually prompting a string of invective.
Sounds like you need to draw some boundaries if you don't want him playing in the rest of your clothes. Tell him to get his own darn pantihose because he stretches and ruins yours.
Or perhaps, let him wear some hose as a preamble to... uh... physical romance.
Dear Abby has written about cross-dressers quite a lot.
2007-07-29 12:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant create a balance for someone else. If he wants to wear the Hose so be it its not for you to set limits on a grown man. he needs to set his own limits.
2007-07-29 12:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Laine 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would keep an open dialog...talk to him about your feelings and/or concerns all the while keeping the atmosphere free of judgment. This is a big one...good luck.
2007-07-29 12:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Michele 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have a cross dresser in the making...have you ever wondered if he's gay?
2007-07-29 14:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋