does it ever happen?

Question

Is it possible to get back with an ex after breaking up over something stupid over time they will come back. My ex is going through a bad time in his life and we broke up over it and i was devastated we have promised to remain friends and i havent seen him in 8 weeks but i will see him this week for the first time because i now feel stronger and i want to be there for him. But eventually i would like to be back in his life as a girlfriend. He didnt want to lose me comlpetely so it was him who wanted the friendship because he said he values what we had together. I want to be there for him to help him through this stressful time. Is there a way back to his heart? i miss him and i want him back. I wonder if he still has feelings for me because he wants to keep me as his friend im very confused right now. please help

Answer 1

I know it's harsh, but those phrases are what men say, when they're trying to let you down gently. If you meet him as friends expecting something more to happen you will get hurt again.
If you genuinely want to be friends then meet him, and talk to him as friends, without pressure or expectations.
If there is still a spark there then if you both want it then things could develop over time, but don't forget, it's never the same the second time around.
Try to get on with your life, see/speak to him as a friend occassionally (no more than once a week). If he wants something more then he will tell you.

Answer 2

Oh wow! There was a movie out in the 80's called About Last Night and I have always found it to be true. The people are in love, they move in together and things are going great until he decides that he might be missing out on something. So, he decides they should break up, he goes out really does not have that great of a time and realizes that he actually does love her and would like her back. However, see she has had to deal with the fact that he does not want her (she does not know any different) and she has grieved and been emotional and HAD to get over him. It is just life, so when he comes strolling back in she basically tells him that he had her, but he told her to go and she had to, and she had to move on and she has and there is nothing she can do about it. He is devastated.
This is not just a male to female thing, but also a female to male. Has happened to me a couple of times in the past. You think that b/c you still have feelings for that person and that they really love you they will always be there, even after you stop looking to see if there is someone else, better if you will. However, they have had to move on. And move on they do.
I hope that in your case I am wrong and things work out for you, but it really is best not to take someone for granted that you love b/c when you decide that you lost something great, it may be too late. Every thing looks better if you don't have it, but everyone has flaws.
Good luck

Answer 3

I'm sure that you'll get back together with him eventually after his crisis is over. In the meantime, show him that you really love him by being there. Don't pressure him about getting back together or anything. Wait for him to be ready.

Answer 4

You need to cunning and sly now if you want him back, pretend you dont want to be his g/f but would value a friendship and make him do the running.

Answer 5

You need to tell him this, and see where he is at. Yes, it is possible to get back together with an ex.

Answer 6

all i can say is this "GOOD LUCK"im not bein funny or nasty.just can tell the pain in your heart.you obviously have so much love inside!

Answer 7

you may if you have a place for him.

Answer 8

If he is by far your best layer, you can't miss him. Go on taking it whenever you get it.

Answer 9

ring him talk to him then take it from there dont sit infront of a computer looking for answers.

GO RING HIM NOW THEN YOU WONT BE SO CONFUSED WILL YOU.

Answer 10

YES OF COURSE