How come muslims dont realise burkas/najab and islam are the ultimate sexaul objectifiers of women?
Take a porn star...
She has a name, a face, a personality, is individual to other women and people in general. Has a social life, friends. Most likely spends her money on things she likes doinf. is independant. Hopefully will find boyfriends and ultimately a long term partner/husband who is likley to be in the industry due to the jealousy side to things.
Possibly may switch to couple porn. ie with hubbie.
Most likely will live her dreams and travel the world and have fun etc.
Picked thet job as the opposite .
but for most people amy see a girl as sexy, they go over to talk to her. and find out shes into gymnatics, loves rock music, does skydiving, has lots of friends and part of a surfclub.
A girl in islam simply existed to be hidden, made to marry young to be nothing more then a sex object to make babies and look after them never interacting in the world, no friends
2007-07-29
03:55:21
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Sexual objectification means they are there to fk and nothing else.
If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. Im human, single and male its feels good to see boobs.
However I would also see the girls as good potential friends or girlfirends as clearly up for a laugh, with a sense of humour, sence of fun, not taking themselves to seriously, relaxed about their sexaulity and guys and hopefully available... if not when disappointed but hopefully would be nice to make friends.
With many sexaul attraction may start thigs but then most end up as friends.
But no face no friends as no idividuality. No life outside a home cooking, cleaning and looking after babies like some house slave.
Most likly from an arranged marriage so she did not even get to decide who fks her.
These husbands see her as property like a sex toy they dont want others to see or play with.
Instead of wanting their love to have a life and interests & friends
2007-07-29
03:59:54 ·
update #1
Thats what sexaul objectification really is.
So why do people not see that and why say everything else is sexaul objectification
2007-07-29
04:00:29 ·
update #2
where everyone wheres different colours and clothes to show their personality and interests
2007-07-29
04:01:02 ·
update #3
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The mother is the Pillar of Society..... take her out of the protection of the home and society will crumble.
NO GIVE HER AN EDUCATION, A CAREER AND A LIFE AND INTERESTS AND SHE IS A FAR BETTER EXAMPLE TO DAUGHTERS OF WHAT FEMALES ARE CAPABLE OF LIKE BECOMING ASTRONAUTS AND TEST PILOTS, DOCTORS AND MOUNTAIN CLIMBERS
protection of home? or prison
2007-07-29
04:02:51 ·
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Yes. What a shame they can';t wear all that liberating lipstick and injure their backs wearing high heels and be able to find jobs in the greatest equal opportunities industry on earth!...The Porn Industry!!!
ACTUALLY PREFER GIRLS IN TRAINERS... MORE FUN
THE PORN STAR REFERERENDCE WAS TO SHOW THE OPPOSITE... MOST ARE INBETWEEN... HOWEVER GUYS ARE JEAOUS AS HELL THAT GIRLS CAN EARN £175,000 A YEAR FOR JUST DANCING SEXY ON STAGE AND KEEPING FIT TO MUSIC. AS A POLE DANCER.
Could do that for money and second job for fun.
Those Muslim women will never know what it is to get paid less than a man for doing the same job,
ERM WHERE DID I SAY ANYONE WAS TO BE PAID LESS FOR THE SAME JOB UNLESS SAID GIRL WANTS GUYS TO PAY FOR DATE MEALS SO HE GETS THE BONUS TO PAY A GIRLS DINNER SHOULD BE EQUAL
or be whistled at by a Neanderthal building site worker.
i LOVE IT IF GIRLS WHISTLE ME. FEEL ALL SEXY
All those grubby paws all over her in night clubs
ERM
2007-07-29
04:20:16 ·
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MATE UAUALLY IVE SEEN THE GIRLS STARTING THE KISSING SESSION AND WANT TO PAWS AND DOING PLENTY OF GRUBBY PAWING BACK IF LIKE THE GUY
2007-07-29
04:20:55 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
2007-07-29
07:24:14 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
2007-07-29
07:24:15 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
2007-07-29
07:24:16 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
2007-07-29
07:24:17 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
2007-07-29
07:24:18 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
2007-07-29
07:24:19 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
2007-07-29
07:24:20 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
2007-07-29
07:24:22 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
2007-07-29
07:24:23 ·
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Hope
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert.
NO MALES ARE ATTRACTED TO FEMLES...FEMALES TO MALES.
FEMALES TEND TO GET THE SAME FEEL GOOD FROM SEEING GUYS WITH MUSCELS.
AND ALSO THEY TEND TO GET OFF ON SEEING MUSICIANS.
PERVERSION IS GETTING OFF IN INTIMIDATION AND VIOLENCE, AND CRUETLY AND DOMINANCE.
HONOUR KILLINGS,
FORCED ARRANGED MARRIAGE
FEMALE CIRCUMCSION/FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION
STONING GIRLS TO DEATH FOR FALLING IN LOVE.
CALLING TEENAGERS WICKED, DIRTY, PERVERTS, ETC SIMPLY AS SEEKING AFFECTION.
SAYING TO PEOPLE THEY ARE GOING TO GO BLIND FROM MASTERBATION.
THATS ALL PERVERSION AS LIKE RAPE, MUGGING, BULLYING AND OTHER FORMS OF PERVERSION...
PERVERSION HURTS PEOPLE
IF NOBODY IS GETTING HURT OR SCARED FOR THE PLEASURE OF THE HURTER THEN ITS NOT PERVERTION
2007-07-29
07:29:35 ·
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You would not like it, if suddenly i accuse you of being a sexual maniac because you like girl to behave like ****.
no just single...
Married people by your referernce are sexaul manics as have sex all the time
Likewise see their spouce as a sex object as touch them up the whole time.
Males like to be fun and attractive. females feel the same way about males only in a different way.
Ie girls like muscells, money etc.
Nothing is sex mania or perversion.
Just the way males and femles cometogether when marriages are not arranged and those withotu a regualr partner will be serching thorugh others for one...
you need to learn that.
As said I picked a porn star as the untimate example opposing islam saying that even someone whos job it is to sexaully turn on others is seen as less of a sex object then somone who is a burka clad wife to stay at home making babies with no face. thats the perversion
2007-07-29
07:34:31 ·
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**yawn**
2007-07-29 03:58:03
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answered by Anonymous
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"If I saw girls get up to a wet t shirt competition... would I want to see boobs? yes. I'm human, single and male its feels good to see boobs." - you are a sick pervert. I've seen your other questions and they all are about the same thing- Muslim women, burka, hijab etc etc. You know if you have a problem with women wearing a burka or hijab then fine, maybe all of us girls should dress like sluts and then the world will become a better place :D AS IF! lol Us Muslim women will always continue wearing the hijab or burka no matter what you say Joey!
2007-07-29 05:34:50
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answered by Hope 5
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From someone who lived on both sides of this fence, here's how I see it:
I spent my youth trying my best to get boys to look at me and think I was hot. Most of those who did, where not really interested in becoming my friend or appreciating my wit and intelligence, that's for sure! And on top of that, I was certainly persued by plenty of people who I did not want to be persued by, to boot. A typical young girl in our society, no matter how gifted, kind, funny, or pleasant she is feels that she is a failure if she can't claim to be "hot". Does this seem reasonable to you? Does this feeling help her to be all she can be?
Now I am a Muslim woman who wears the niqab and abaya. I am treated with respect by men, Muslim and non-Muslim. i graduated with honors in political science from a major university and my husband was supporting me all along the way. Not once since wearing these clothes have I been sexually harassed or made to feel like I am someone's object, and certainly not by my husband.
Your asessment of the meaning of hijab is completely off-base. The Quran says for us to wear hijab so that we will be known as respectable Muslim women and not harassed for our looks. How is that objectifying? In fact, the result is quite the opposite. With hijab, women and men are much more likely to focus on our inner qualities a opposed to our outer shells. Doesn't everyone want that ultimately?
Wearing the hijab does not mean that we cannot go out into the world, pursue education, have friends, jobs and make money. It is there to allow us to do those things with the least possible chance of harassment and problem. Sorry if you refuse to try to understand that and foist your own ideas upon it and us. It is your loss, not ours.
2007-07-31 08:37:50
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answered by MBC 4
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Yes. What a shame they can';t wear all that liberating lipstick and injure their backs wearing high heels and be able to find jobs in the greatest equal opportunities industry on earth!...The Porn Industry!!!
Those Muslim women will never know what it is to get paid less than a man for doing the same job, or be whistled at by a Neanderthal building site worker.
All those grubby paws all over her in night clubs and being forced to endure a pig who tells jokes and does it with the worst breath in the world.
I feel so sorry for them. What are they missing!!!!
Oh look...theres a neanderthal thumb!
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OMG!!!! You have waaaaayyyy too much time on your hands!!!
2007-07-29 04:03:48
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answered by Anonymous
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lol you use porn star as example. Great that a realistic example to be fliging around.
Well muslim woman may not be that liberated to sell their body to wide audience. But i can give you real life example such as my teacher, my close acquaintance and lot of people that i meet in my country. Who are muslim woman, proud, and follow diligently what god prescribed. Best of all their all independent, successfully and have more intelligent dwarfing your own.
please when you talk muslim people don't equate ourself with the arab. There are many facet of muslim society. Some may not even wear burqa.
Some muslim man do find that woman as equal and don't treat them like ****.
You want some example me!. You would not like it, if suddenly i accuse you of being a sexual maniac because you like girl to behave like ****. I do not like you to generalise muslim man like what you commonly see.
2007-07-29 04:22:46
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answered by Islam_is_great 2
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I've yet to meet a Muslim woman who isolates herself in a corner, hidden from society till the day of her death, born only to serve her husband and children. I find it very hard to believe that you've met anyone like that too. Please quote a verse from the Qur'an which tells a woman that she must not have friends or enjoy her life.
2007-07-29 04:12:20
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answered by Anonymous
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The burka is a symbol of men's fear of women's sexuality. It reminds me of the way the Victorians used to cover table legs because it was considered indecent to leave them "naked." People who are afraid of sex attach an exaggerated importance to it, and see it everywhere. Normal, mentally healthy people simply satisfy the appetite when necessary and get on with their day. Religions that criminalize sexuality are basically institutionalized sexual neuroses.
2007-07-29 04:00:38
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answered by jonjon418 6
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yes , you are right.i donot think that God makes faces as an identity for a person then askes us to hide it,as we do with our genitals,face & genitals shouldnot be regarded in the same manner in this respect
2007-08-05 17:00:42
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HIJAAB FOR WOMEN
Question:
Why does Islam degrade women by keeping them behind the veil?
Answer:
The status of women in Islam is often the target of attacks in the secular media. The ‘hijaab’ or the Islamic dress is cited by many as an example of the ‘subjugation’ of women under Islamic law. Before we analyze the reasoning behind the religiously mandated ‘hijaab’, let us first study the status of women in societies before the advent of Islam
1. In the past women were degraded and used as objects of lust
The following examples from history amply illustrate the fact that the status of women in earlier civilizations was very low to the extent that they were denied basic human dignity:
1. Babylonian Civilization:
The women were degraded and were denied all rights under the Babylonian law. If a man murdered a woman, instead of him being punished, his wife was put to death.
2. Greek Civilization:
Greek Civilization is considered the most glorious of all ancient civilizations. Under this very ‘glorious’ system, women were deprived of all rights and were looked down upon. In Greek mythology, an ‘imaginary woman’ called ‘Pandora’ is the root cause of misfortune of human beings. The Greeks considered women to be subhuman and inferior to men. Though chastity of women was precious, and women were held in high esteem, the Greeks were later overwhelmed by ego and sexual perversions. Prostitution became a regular practice amongst all classes of Greek society.
3. Roman Civilization:
When Roman Civilization was at the zenith of its ‘glory’, a man even had the right to take the life of his wife. Prostitution and nudity were common amongst the Romans.
4. Egyptian Civilization:
The Egyptian considered women evil and as a sign of a devil.
5. Pre-Islamic Arabia:
Before Islam spread in Arabia, the Arabs looked down upon women and very often when a female child was born, she was buried alive.
2. Islam uplifted women and gave them equality and expects them to maintain their status.
Islam uplifted the status of women and granted them their just rights 1400 years ago. Islam expects women to maintain their status.
Hijaab for men
People usually only discuss ‘hijaab’ in the context of women. However, in the Glorious Qur’an, Allah (swt) first mentions ‘hijaab’ for men before ‘hijaab’ for the women. The Qur’an mentions in Surah Noor:
"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do."
[Al-Qur’an 24:30]
The moment a man looks at a woman and if any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his mind, he should lower his gaze.
Hijaab for women.
The next verse of Surah Noor, says:
" And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons..."
[Al-Qur’an 24:31]
3. Six criteria for Hijaab.
According to Qur’an and Sunnah there are basically six criteria for observing hijaab:
1. Extent:
The first criterion is the extent of the body that should be covered. This is different for men and women. The extent of covering obligatory on the male is to cover the body at least from the navel to the knees. For women, the extent of covering obligatory is to cover the complete body except the face and the hands upto the wrist. If they wish to, they can cover even these parts of the body. Some scholars of Islam insist that the face and the hands are part of the obligatory extent of ‘hijaab’.
All the remaining five criteria are the same for men and women.
2. The clothes worn should be loose and should not reveal the figure.
3. The clothes worn should not be transparent such that one can see through them.
4. The clothes worn should not be so glamorous as to attract the opposite sex.
5. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the opposite sex.
6. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the unbelievers i.e. they should not wear clothes that are specifically identities or symbols of the unbelievers’ religions.
4. Hijaab includes conduct and behaviour among other things
Complete ‘hijaab’, besides the six criteria of clothing, also includes the moral conduct, behaviour, attitude and intention of the individual. A person only fulfilling the criteria of ‘hijaab’ of the clothes is observing ‘hijaab’ in a limited sense. ‘Hijaab’ of the clothes should be accompanied by ‘hijaab’ of the eyes, ‘hijaab’ of the heart, ‘hijaab’ of thought and ‘hijaab’ of intention. It also includes the way a person walks, the way a person talks, the way he behaves, etc.
5. Hijaab prevents molestation
The reason why Hijaab is prescribed for women is mentioned in the Qur’an in the following verses of Surah Al-Ahzab:
"O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad); that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."
[Al-Qur’an 33:59]
The Qur’an says that Hijaab has been prescribed for the women so that they are recognized as modest women and this will also prevent them from being molested.
2007-08-05 14:47:00
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answered by Anonymous
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You have opened a tin of worms. Prepared to be assaulted by Muslim reporters. Don't worry, my army of Grues will support you.
2007-07-29 06:38:13
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answered by Anonymous
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The mother is the Pillar of Society..... take her out of the protection of the home and society will crumble.
You can keep your porn stars to raise your next generation.
We have our pillars and they will be protected from outside evil.
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2007-07-29 03:59:54
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answered by Anonymous
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